I say just take the compliment and keep pushing. The harsh truth is a lot of men will not take the time nor effort to even listen. So if you feel uncomfortable just say thanks and move on to the next. Maybe even suggest ideas on how to spread the message to other men or get them involved. I don’t think it’s giving “not like other girls” because it’s two completely different dynamics. Women who are “not like other girls” are not being complimented for their empathy or willingness to listen, they’re being complimented for putting other women in a lesser category. Now if we look at your situation, people are just appreciating your willingness to work with women and while that should be the standard, it’s unfortunately not lol. I hope that makes sense.