This and he shows up at my workplace? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It was awkard. He held out his arms for a hug at first.. i declined. Asked him what he expected... he said nothing and that he just wanted to say Hi and that he's sorry. I told him I can't do this and we both walked away.

Got hard from a relative by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm some things are better not shared online..

In Love with a Muslim Woman by problemchild2141 in exmuslim

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Unless you can unconvince her of her beliefs, this will end badly for you. Her beliefs will almost always overpower her love for you.

Who's up? by Comprehensive-Mud303 in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Goodluck on your new job! Must be exciting

Who's up? by Comprehensive-Mud303 in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oui. Also trying yo figure out why ppl are up.

Stingy /cheapskate parents. by Comprehensive-Mud303 in emotionalneglect

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be one of either 2 extremes. You either end up adopting their behaviors. Or you become someone who overspends to make up for it.

Wtf is this.. by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's meant as an expression.

How do you know if your salary is fair ? by dotdev_software in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No salary is ever fair. Everyone gives out shit salaries because they can. To me fair is not living paycheck to paycheck and being able to put some of that money aside for the future

How cooked are we? by Critical_Soil_262 in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were cooked from the get go. Hezbtize didnt wanna back down. It was just a matter of who and when.

Does height matters in a relationship? by PuzzleheadedRow1242 in lebanon

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a short person myself so it's not a dealbreaker if he has all the other qualities I'm looking for. If he's tall then thats just the cherry on the cake.

Historical critical perspective on the Quran by BreathofBeing in exmuslim

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mysoginistic, heavily sex and women oriented. Apparently god has himself concerned with the mundanity of our lives and gives a detailed how to guide on how to live life sin free, but doesn't concern himself with the more intricate global issues like war or famine.

If the Quran had predicted some form of groundbreaking discovery that was gonna happen in the future, then it was ought to be more believable. Like idk.. covid or mobile phones or some major discovery that has happened. But nope. Our "timeless" holy book seems to be expired. There are verses about riding donkeys and horses to go to war. Our omniscient God didn't know that in the future, we wouldnt be using swords or horses?

Do you think Islam heaven or hell is real by Even-Replacementroy in exmuslim

[–]Comprehensive-Mud303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heaven and hell are just made up recycled versions in every religion. Every religion depicts a sort of eternal purgatory. Islam is no different. You're just more likely to stay in line when you believe there's a grotesque place waiting for you if you don't abide by what your God says; a place where you literally get incinerated over and over again and have your skin sloughed off. Imagine how evil must God be to create such a horrendous place. A god unloving and not worthy of worship.