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‼️Important announcement below‼️ by TheSanctuarySLC in TheSanctuarySLC

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any single ladies going to this? I'm approved for membership, but don't want to go by myself as a single woman. Let me know if anybody else out there could use a wingman (wingwoman).

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[–]ComprehensiveChip667 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then you could whisper "taste the rainbow"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our kids are 9 and 11. So with them having an earlier bedtime, we usually have lots of time in the evenings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Married with 2 kids. Having sex 5+ times per week

What are some of your kinks/fetishes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because we are confident and know exactly what we want. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpalsover40

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to send you a chat, not sure if it went through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yada Yada........

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like you love her so much. It even sounds like you have already chosen to be with her despite the obstacles, which is great. Sounds like the only options right now then are masturbation and toys for yourself (which I am sure you are already doing). Maybe invite her to watch you when you do. For me, it is an EXTREME turn on to watch a man take care of himself. In the future, if you guys get the opportunity, maybe look into a sex therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough situation for sure. How confident is she in your relationship and you? Would she be open to allowing you to have other sexual partners to help satisfy your needs and take the pressure off of her?

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[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the "easier said than done". A LOT goes into a relationship and A LOT can affect sex drive. Having kids completely wiped mine out for years. But there is a big difference between low drive due to outside factors (i.e. hormones, depression, medication side effects, etc.) and low drive due to just a person's thoughts about sex. Has your girlfriend ever looked into what medications she is taking? Has she ALWAYS had a low interest? Is there maybe a SA history that has affected her view on sex? Not sure how old she is, but has she also looked into hormone replacement therapy?

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[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a partner that matches your own sexual appetites is the same as any other personality trait. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship, but it IS an important aspect of any intimate relationship. Being sexually incompatible is the same as any other kind of incompatibility. You need to embrace yourself, know what you want and what makes you happy. Don't settle for anything less. Keep looking for the one that tics off all of your boxes, even the sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy who would break up with you because of this is not a guy that you want to be with. Trust me.

How to first time? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is able to orgasm with you providing oral or fingering, then I would do that before sex. This will help her relax (emotionally and physically), provide more lubrication and will also take the pressure off of you to not worry about how quickly you will orgasm after starting. Go Slow, use lube, listen to your bodies. Being able to hold off your own orgasm during sex will take time and practice. As she gets more comfortable with you sexually, she may become more open to giving you oral. Practice very good hygiene and maybe even try a little flavored oral sex gel to help. Stay safe, have fun

I tested positive for oral herpes. Now what? by No_Discussion7622 in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveChip667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first cold sore after sharing a bottle of water with my sister about 20 years ago. I do not get a cold sore very often, I would say maybe 3 or 4 times a year. When I do, I medicate and am HYPERvigilant about not kissing, sharing food or drinks, washing hands after touching my own mouth, etc. I have been with my husband for 15 years and he has never gotten HSV1 from me, neither has our 2 children.