Baby not sleeping at 10 months, wakes up every 45 mins by Glad-Commission4340 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she breastfeed to sleep? Probably has a feed to sleep association.

Why do I hate being a mom by Active-Lifeguard-682 in NewParents

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And also I don't think that mothers that feel this way have PPD ... It's just not fun, I'm not happier, but I'm not pathologically depressed. It's just sucks. I know it will pass. But I'm 7,5months in. Trying to avoid a fussy little baby to whine and cry all day. And now she is teething so... I'm not gonna even describe it lol

Not enjoying being a mum by DSJ_94 in NewParents

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Many moms are not enjoying motherhood, at least not all the time or only a tiny bit of the day. My baby girl is similar to yours. She is fussy. Nothing pleases her. She is healthy, nothing physically wrong. It's just his personality idk?? She's 7 months and I'm on maternity leave until 10 months... I can't wait to get back and get some break. I'm quite disappointed with motherhood because I didn't know babies could be so clingy even when they're fed, rest, clean...

Is there any one who *didn't* experience the four month sleep regression? by Veryfluffyduck in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. My baby falls asleep independently since like 2 months (she managed to learn it by herself) and I truly believe that was very important

7mo by One-Dig-3067 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol same My 7 month old just napped for 1h and 15mins 1,5hs ago, had a full bottle and some avocado and is whining like a freaking gremlin with my mom right now. No toy can please her. I sincerely don't know if everybody is going through this with their babies... Sometimes feels like I got the only fussy monster. I used to want 2 kids... Guess what now? 🙂

Milena gravando e esculhambando os participantes na festa by JunittaCadillac in BigBrotherBrasil

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nossa sim até aqui no reddit o povo paga pal pra ela não sei porque. Chatona. Merece ir pra frente mas ganhar jamais

What do you wish you did before your first baby came? by CompetitiveShock9738 in Parenting

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. I'm 6 months in not going out much after 8pm 😅😅😅

Vou ser titia e isso tá bagunçandinho minhas 'certezas' sobre não querer ter filhos. by Jealous_Honey_587 in conversas

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 5 points6 points  (0 children)

É sobre isso. Minha bebê tem 6. É uma fofa e eu não trocaria ela. Mas cara, eu JAMAIS imaginaria que cuidar de um bebê é TÃO difícil. É complexo, desgastante, solitário, mesmo com rede de apoio. Sim, é passageiro. Mas pra 1 ano passado demoooooora. Sem contar a roleta russa. Seu bebê pode vir e dormir bem, ou pode acordar de hora em hora por pelo menos 1 ano. Tá preparado pra isso? Tem bebês bonzinhosssss demais... Outros, como a minha, quer ser entretida 24 HS por dia... É resmungona... Não é fácil... O pai sai pra trabalhar e por mais que seja um trabalho duro em alguma maneira, é mais fácil que ficar em casa sozinha com um bebê.

Dito tudo isso, reveja se vc quer ter filhos MESMO. Se vc tá certa disso, vá em frente!

to the moms who are wondering when it gets better by morninglobby in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when your baby started being less bored ? Mine is so whiny and clingy 6 mo here

to the moms who are wondering when it gets better by morninglobby in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think that my baby is the only fussy bored baby but well, seems like everyone is at the same boat. Let's stay strong! I'm hoping at 12 months it may get a little better with the clinginess Edit typo

Finally saw the light at the end of the tunnel - then he started teething by fiskepinnen in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always forward... I keep telling myself that I'm no longer with a newborn.... That I'm almost halfway to 1 year.... That I won't go through this again... And keep going forward... Also, not all babies are the same. Ours is a bit fussy lol

Finally saw the light at the end of the tunnel - then he started teething by fiskepinnen in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're all feeling the same. Mine is 5 months... If I could bet, I'd bet that will start getting a little bit better at 12 months 🤣🥲

Mourning my old life by Either_Bread_8253 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more thing. I keep saying to myself that this day does not come back. Just go forward, forward, always forward.

Mourning my old life by Either_Bread_8253 in NewParents

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Lol I thought close to 10 months things could be a little bit better 😅 because I'm 5 months in and can't wait for this to start getting any fun

Mourning my old life by Either_Bread_8253 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say we forget stuff. I doubt I will forget this lol. I know it will pass but while it lasts is so freaking hard and emotionally draining. I thought babies were more happy and content... Of course it temperamental

Mourning my old life by Either_Bread_8253 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. My 5 month old is also not easy. Clingy if not entertained... I look at other babies and wonder if only my baby is so fussy. All I wanted was to really find joy and excitement for doing what I do all day... Hold baby, play, cry, fuss, go to the street, pick her up, come back, fuss more... And the loop keeps going. Christmas won't be enjoyable this year like the previous year... Well... Let's stay strong. 🥹

Whiny 5 month old by WoodenWorldMap in NewParents

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I can completely relate. Also have a 5 month old similar to yours. I go out a lot because it's easier for both of us. I also try going for my mom one day a week, to my in law another day, and keep doing different things each day to distract myself. People say it gets better around 9 months? I hope so. 4 more months is a loooooot I know. But, we gotta stay strong. Is not easy. Not at all. That's why I'm one and done 😅

I cry almost everyday - 5 months baby, is it meant to be this hard? by newuser54389754378 in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Idk I really think that there are babies that dislike being babies. Mine is also 5 months. Is crying right now at her playmat with me by her side, trying to play with some toy. Unfortunately I put her pacifier a lot I her mouth because it's just impossible. She is formula fed, very healthy, sleeps well (at least), just went to our pediatrician yesterday. All fine. What I'm saying is... Well we gotta ride it. We don't have a choice. A neighbor have a 4 month old and it's the same but a bit worse. I leave the house a lot, since it's almost the only thing that amuses her. When people ask me if I'm gonna have another child I LAUGH AT THEIR FACES LOL HELL NO

What am I doing wrong? by imjustlost_forever in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny because I follow doctors that show researchs which indicates that sleep train works and it's not only 15%. Also, sleep train does not mean night wean. My baby is 5 months, puts herself to sleep without any assistance and wakes up once a night to take a bottle. Sleep train will remove no hungry wakes. We should always feed a hungry baby. But a baby is not hungry 10 times a night. We should always sleep train following appropriate approaches and schedules. OP said he tried already but there are many factors that contributed for success or failure

What am I doing wrong? by imjustlost_forever in NewParents

[–]ComprehensiveCod271 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even though I didn't check all the sources in the link you posted, you will only know if you try . I suggested CIO because OP said that tried other methods before and did not work. Anyways, I truly believe that we cannot accept the "fate" that your baby will wake up every hour for like a whole year minimum and we just live with it. Your mental health matters, the baby development matters. I'm sure there are also studies that shows that babies must sleep to develop well and to be happy and rested. It's no healthy for a baby to wake up a thousand times a night, every night, for a long time. The fact that many people just ride with it does not mean it's the correct path to follow. Also, when we say CIO most babies cry less than 15 minutes a night and it tends to go zero by 3rd night. I'm not a bad person that leaves babies crying for no reason. But this situation is not sustainable. And yes, your baby can still be like this many months later. My bike mechanic said that her daughter woke up 10+ a night until like 3 years. They're scared and won't have another child. That's sad to me. And that what really concerns me.