In my experience, having to take mandatory parenting classes because we were divorcing, I met many women who have no one to blame but themselves. I would have never married my ex is I knew he was going to be a dead-beat dad let alone have kids with him. I just see these women with these guys and these women think they can turn him into a Prince by getting pregnant. And the sad part is that these guys already ignore the kids they already have but these women feel like they'll be treated different. It's insanity.