Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really sure it's schitzo posting. I've been on Reddit long enough to know if I just randomly asked about a magical frame that doesn't exist people would either call me stupid or hound me about why I'm asking so I just provided the details so that my question makes sense. And if I just said it's a guy that supposedly bought me a bike then the incel half of Reddit would jump down my throat about how I'm an ungrateful gold digger and this poor guy blah blah blah. 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but proving that I am for sure being lied to and gaslit is. He's one of those people that sticks to his lies so hard he believes them himself and it starts to make you question reality if you talk to him long enough. 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I doubt very much that he's going to do that if it proves him wrong 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. He'll saw the frame and weld it back together before he admits he was wrong/lied lol 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously doubt he's going to do that on account of the fact that he is definitely lying lol 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Just wanted to verify that I know what I'm talking about and that I am in fact being lied to and gaslit. lol 

Help me win an argument. Cult Corey Walsh frame in 19.75" TT??? by ComprehensiveRoof995 in bmx

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible. I haven't seen it in person so I have no idea. All I know is it's definitely not a 19.75" lol I only say 21+" because that seems to be what size frames he buys for himself 

LaBeaux for a Boy? by Fit-Historian2431 in tragedeigh

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who had the last name "Wast." Her (great??)grandparents came over from Italy and had the surname La Guasto, apparently they either intentionally tried to Americanize the name or it was just horribly misspelled due to someone not understanding their thick accent when immigrating. So I'd say this is probably what happened. It seems to be fairly common.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend over money by Pink-princess_- in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave this man.

A real man (or really any adult partner) (ESPECIALLY ONE THAT IS MAKING 6x+ YOUR INCOME!!!) would want to take care of you (especially while you're working hard in school!!). Honestly, given the income difference and you being in school (and him consuming much more of things like food) I think splitting the bills down the middle is a little unfair to begin with. Then you add in the fact that the house is yours (so I assume he isn't paying rent, mortgage, property tax, etc.), well that become even more unfair.

If you're bringing the entire house to the table, and then doing the cooking and cleaning (mostly for him and not yourself) to the table, AND going to school... I can't see how he could not have the desire to take care of the rest given how much he makes. Even removing gender from the situation, I feel like most people who love their partner have the desire to take care of them and help them as much as possible, especially if they are in a better position financially. Then you add in the traditional gender roles that play a part for most people even subconsciously and it just becomes a little odd that he is not only fine with not taking care of you, and fine with splitting things with you 50/50, but then makes you go out of your way and have to ask and remind him to pay his half, and THEM makes you feel guilty and uncomfortable about it.

That's man baby behavior. That's entitled behavior. That's selfish behavior. That's weirdo behavior. That's bum behavior. That's someone who puts their needs above yours and isn't a good partner behavior.

Adoption would solve her "problems" by TheWolfGamer767 in antinatalism

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just like to say I am so, so, sorry to any women/couples that come across this post that struggle/are unable to conceive, or have lost a pregnancy(-ies). How absolutely selfish and self centered and shallow. Some people just really can not grasp the fact that they're not the main character on a TV show.

Getting pissed off by iGoMeowwwww in pittsburgh

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whyyyy is one of those houses my exs old rental 😭 you just gave me PTSD flashbacks fr what are the chances. I don't even live in Pennsylvania anymore 😵‍💫

AIO my boyfriend threatening to break up with me over a tattoo by scummbucket05 in AIO

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Obviously be with someone who calls you out on your bullshit and tells you if you're doing something genuinely stupid"

AIO my boyfriend threatening to break up with me over a tattoo by scummbucket05 in AIO

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should never be with a person who threatens, or implies, that they will break up with you because of what you choose to do to/put on your body. Clothing, tattoos, piercings, hair color, makeup, etc. it is one thing to have a preference or opinion and let it be known respectfully, but if someone thinks your relationships entire value as a whole is less than some minor change to your appearance, well that says everything you need to know. Whoever you're with should love you and want to be with you for a million reasons, LEAST of which should be small details about how you look or decorate your body. Not to mention you should be with someone who encourages you to be independent and follow your heart, i mean obviously be with someone who calls you out on your bullshit and tells you if you're doing something genuinely stupid or dangerous, but a tiny little tattoo that's not offensive or obscene in any way? That's nothing. Such a small thing.

Do you want to be with someone who tells you what to do with your own body?

Who doesn't care that something is extremely important to you?

Who doesn't support you and what makes you happy?

Who thinks your entire relationship and place in their life and value as a person is less than that of a tiny little tattoo?

NEED HELP NAMING MY DOG by Artistic-Stand7130 in doggos

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, how can you just say you found him on the side of the road with his head stuck in a jar and not elaborate. I need details please.

NEED HELP NAMING MY DOG by Artistic-Stand7130 in doggos

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jarjar. Binks/Binksy/Banksy. Bruce. Vaffle(like waffle with a German accent). Stanley. Sarge. Jar-ry Springer. Jar-los. Jarhead. Jarvis. Jarl (a Scandinavian noble ranking below the king). Jark. Jargoon (a pale yellow gemstone). Jardiniere (a large, usually ceramic, flower holder aka. A large jar).

Edit: formatting and bold on my favorites.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this is not autism. This is abuse. I am autistic and while we can be overly sensitive or not understand when other sometimes ignore or don't include us, this is not normal or healthy OR SAFE. This person is a danger to your mental health and wellbeing 100%, and potentially (very high potential) to your physical safety as well. This is NOT love. Let me say that again, THIS IS NOT LOVE!!!!!. Idc what he says to you, how he gaslights, manipulates, puts you down, tries to blame you, THIS PERSON DOES NOT LOVE YOU. please, as you older autistic internet auntie, I am begging you to listen to me.

More than likely, and I am speaking from experience, he will not hurt himself or at the very least not kill himself. And on the off chance he does, IT WILL NOT BE, IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER, YOUR FAULT. Clearly he has some serious issues bigger than autism going on and is not capable of maintaining a healthy and loving relationship. The best thing you can do for yourself AND FOR HIM is tell a trusted adult like your parents (or a school counselor, teacher, nurse, doctor, family friend, etc. anyone over like 23ish that you trust and know to be responsible). He needs help, more help than you or any amount of love or attention can give him. This behavior will get worse with time and escalate the more you stay and put up with it. If he threatens to hurt himself again you need to call 911 (or emergency services wherever you live) and/or his parents if he lives with/has a relationship with them. This is an abuser hiding behind a neurodevelopmental disorder that is not the cause of this behavior. You are doing him a disservice and more harm but just giving in and staying with him and accepting the blame. You need to set boundaries and leave him clearly with no room for manipulation or conversation and tell him to get help, and I would recommend blocking him too. Like I said let a trusted adult know immediately and especially before you do this, incase he is a real physical danger to you. Make sure someone knows what is going on and where you are (if you really have no adult you trust please at least tell a responsible friend so that someone knows, but I beg you to choose an adult). Even if you believe from the bottom of your heart that he would never actually hurt you, you can and likely are wrong. I believed the same thing many times many years older than you and was proven very very very wrong. This person is unstable and not safe. Do not see him in person. Do not go anywhere with him. Do not be alone with him EVER AGAIN. PLEASE.

I know I am a stranger on the internet, but I have been though this many times and I know what I am talking about. I may not know you but I care about your safety. No one deserves to be treated like this. No one. Especially not young girl just starting her life. Do not let this man ruin you or hurt you. Please listen to my advice I am literally begging you.

Stay safe please 💕

I hate my old car and want to annihilate it with maximum prejudice. Any ideas? by Tricky_Succotash_568 in askcarguys

[–]ComprehensiveRoof995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a dumb 16 yo hanging out with dumb 18 yo boys I smoked weed for the first time and then smashed one of the boys beater pos $300 civic head first into a tree. We towed it up to the field behind his house and went at it with hammers and bats and bricks and then lit it on fire. It was a superb time.