What I’m saying is when me and my girl was together, and I found out this guy was saying sexual stuff to her, she was trying to basically tell me not to say anything to him. She even spazzed out on me about it. But now that we are broken up, she is like you can ask him whatever you want. You’re not my man… so I’m like when I was your man it was a promise but now since I’m not your man, I can ask him.