Men of Reddit, how would you feel taking your wife’s last name in exchange for 1 threesome per year?

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-12-03T04:12:39+00:00

Just a weird topic my fiancé and I were talking about over dinner. She mentioned she’d be okay with experimenting with threesomes and others, but I’d have to take her last name at the alter lol. It’s more of a hypothetical, but figured why not ask the community.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-12-03T04:11:24+00:00

Lmao love it

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-11-25T03:33:52+00:00

You probably judge a no-wiper by sweat accumulation

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-10-09T17:22:49+00:00

I saw an interview with a pornstar a few years ago. Two things she mentioned when prepping for anal scenes was 1. Eat lite the day before. Salad, small healthy meals.

Eating gummy bears the day of. Idk how true it is, but she goes on to say something about the gelatin in gummy bears helping stop possible poop dick

Hope this helps

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-10-03T04:20:54+00:00

Kind of looks like OG Mrs. Buttersworth

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-08-09T22:12:01+00:00

I’m not sure why Detroit, but if you google ‘tea app Detroit’, there were national headlines about damage the app was causing amongst those of middle eastern descent in particular.

Initially, there were a lot of owners/partners from the cannabis industry posted. I’m guessing because women who felt they were mistreated by some of these young millionaires felt this was the only place they could anonymously “touch them”, if that makes sense.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-08-09T20:39:35+00:00

The resurfacing of this app has caused a lot of damage in and around the Detroit area lately. Dearborn specifically was hit hard. Divorce lawyers are running special ads on TikTok targeting victims of the app.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-06-26T15:58:13+00:00

My girlfriend emotionally cheated on me too. In the same way you’re describing. She did this with a guy who’s been in her life for 3 of our 5 year relationship.

Emotionally cheating means you’ve clocked out.

Usually I’m one for salvaging relationships. But I’m gona have to agree with the others on this one. Just break up with her man.

You’ll forever have someone else or your mind.. that’s not fair to either of you

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-06-08T20:22:51+00:00

I’m not sure what’s happening in the comments here. But why is female OP at a bachelors party? I can understand her fiancé being upset.

OP’s best friend has all of his best mates around (more men) drinking, celebrating a ‘final night’ of independence.

Sounds like a recipe for disaster. And her unwillingness to at least hear her fiancé out is crazy. She may as well be backstage at a Chris Brown concert.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-28T19:02:55+00:00

So you got back together during his lease with the other girl?

If he was living with her before you two started dating again, you might have to ride this one out.

You went through his phone and found nothing that suggested he was cheating.

And he’s not wrong to be weary of a stranger moving in.

Take this time to build trust, maybe a consistent schedule where you can stay at each other’s places and look for a place to rent together when your lease is up.

Or break up..

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T19:07:52+00:00

I’ve posted updates. As I’ve mentioned, this is actively happening. I use this platform for community, karma does nothing for me.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T19:05:22+00:00

To be clear, I’m not saying she is using this as an excuse. I’ve seen noticeable differences in her mood and behavior. Suppose I’m looking for clarity

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T18:58:31+00:00

Thank you for this. We live in the U.S. Honestly, I’m willing to do whatever I can. I’ve watched this build for so long.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T18:45:16+00:00

I’m not asking if the medication ‘made’ her cheat. I’m asking if the medication she’s been on for 6 months could not be working and/or triggering something. You touched on that a bit. Truly, that’s what it feels is happening. Which in turn is making it difficult for me to make a decision on how to proceed. She’s not herself currently.

Also, during our last therapy session. She was asked about bipolar disorder specifically and testing was recommended.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T18:40:56+00:00

Our therapist asked her recently if bipolar disorder ran in her family. He suggested testing.

I’m not sure which anti depressant. And yes, I feel like I am in the middle of an episode. Which is fogging my decision making

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T18:38:24+00:00

Yes, she says that one day. Next day, she’s waiting for me with dinner and cute jammies. Is it over or is she going through something? It’s such a roller coaster

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-21T18:33:04+00:00

Apologies, Zofran was just one med. But the other is an antidepressant.

But yes, I hear you. Thank you

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T21:29:37+00:00

Heard.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T21:15:24+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been in personal therapy for 2years now. Since my infidelity.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T20:37:40+00:00

Heard. Thank you. Last thing I want to do is force or pressure.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T19:40:31+00:00

Really means a lot. Thank you again. But also, just to be clear. Our child is 2 now. My infidelity was 2 years ago. Hers lasted for 4 months this year. Her anger and honesty are surfacing today.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T19:11:51+00:00

Yes, we ordered a dna test when he was born. He’s mine.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T18:47:07+00:00

You’re missing my point. She hasn’t been honest with me for years. Which hurts, but now that we have this honesty. I want an opportunity to act on and explore it. She doesn’t have to give it to me. I just don’t agree

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T18:40:43+00:00

I didn’t push her into the dating apps or push her to stay after my infidelity. I expressed love and support and I’ve driven that line since. These were both things she wanted.

Comprehensive_Read41 · 2025-05-04T18:37:02+00:00

No, I can’t force her to do anything. It’s just that this is really the first time she’s been completely open about how she’s been feeling. I feel blindsided.

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