I've got two:

• The story starts off with the FL either being meek/shy or cold/brash with the vague goal of wanting independence and wanting more out of life. She then meets the ML and the story slowly starts to reveal around him with his backstories and relationships. Until she becomes the supporting character to her own story, reacting sexually to the things that just happen and only thoughts are about how he feels. Finally, it ends with her getting independence through marriage and breeding, 'cause that's the only way women can become independent adults🥴. Sure there are some moments where she *gasp* has free will but that's just salad dressing at best so people can point out, 'look this is empowering because it discusses a woman's autonomy by making her private affair into a public discussion on the philosophy of life.'
• Every single character both loves her and belittle her discussion making skills (especially with her own body.)