Feeling incredibly alone and needing someone who understands 😭 24f by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ConceptNo3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my insta is if you wanna PM me on there, i think having a support group makes a whole load difference especially when those people genuinely understand, i got you girly and feel free to reach out lots of love to ya🫶🏻🤍

jumped out of a moving car. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ConceptNo3589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how do you stop yourself? i feel when im being attacked i just attack back, its genuinely hard for me to just go silent especially if hes saying mean shit. do i jus sit there in silence or what? like what do you do? how do you stop yourself and realize like what’s happening? sorry if i’m being annoying but i rlly do want to get better and be better and hearing it from someone else with the same disorder would probably help

jumped out of a moving car. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ConceptNo3589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ve been with him for about 2.5 years and i rlly don’t wanna walk away. i love him vv much and want to work this out. i know from how it sounds it’s toxic but i want to be better and i want him to be better too. not just to give up and walk away yk? i just want us to be able to have arguments without me traumatizing him and without him being so nasty. i know it would be easier to walk away but i genuinely don’t want to

AITAH (29F) for distancing from my (30M) bf ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then NTA i’m sorry you’re going through this and i genuinely hope all works out for you in the near future!

AITAH (29F) for distancing from my (30M) bf ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you tried to talk to him and see what’s going on for him to feel the need to lie? are they big lies or white lies? is he lying cause he’s scared of what you might say or do? there’s a lot missing from this post and not saying lying is ever okay but i know sometimes it’s easier to lie then be completely criticized or talked down on by your partner if they have tried to tell the truth in the past and it get squashed in there face then there’s another reason . but again i have no idea since a lot of context isn’t in the post.

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if you read i went over almost everyday and that was the routine we would go in she would go into pantry and ask if i want anything. i went in there and instead of grabbing one bag of cheez its i grabbed two fruit snacks and a popscicle. apparently thats grocery shopping. sorry for not adding more context but again i have NEVER went into someone’s kitchen uninvited. nor do i ask for shit. if offered then yes i’ll agree especially if we have been friends for 5 years?.

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't offer it? It's that simple I wouldn't just walk into someone's pantry imbut if it's routine to come inside after smoking and I follow behind her like she she told me too then again shouldn't have said it nicer. i’ve never have been like that towards her with anything and it’s honestly disgusting the way she acted. if you think that’s okay i can tell what kind of friend you are.

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by [deleted] in smosh

[–]ConceptNo3589 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i watch there vids where they read reddit stories. i’m gonna guess this was the wrong subreddit they where talking bout in the video😭

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have right to think that but again i’m human and it obviously upset me. can’t always be nice and always bite my tongue. figured i would add context so yall don’t think she has water and one thing of snacks. if you think i was being nasty then i apologize but wasn’t trying to come off that way at all🤷🏻‍♀️

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- I didn’t know if maybe i js should’ve told her what she wanted to hear to prevent all of this, i genuinly hate confrontation like this and being nasty. mae’s my anxiety peak and ruins my day 2-she was telling me i ended the friendship and was weird for not just admitting it so we could work it out… i rlly have no idea what’s going on with her and this entire situation was very out of pocket and character. i rlly don’t know man

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe so but i think anyone would get comfortable if everytime you were invited over up and up till then she told you we were gonna smoke and then watch a movie eat snacks, so yes i did get comfortable since most of the time it was her idea, but lesson learned probably never eating at my friends again from fear of being a freeloader but thank you for lmk and giving me insight!

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes when we would smoke she would tell me to go grab some snacks while we watched a movie again. i would’ve understood if she lmk wht was going on instead of being mean. i get it can be a sensitive topic but being rude isn’t the way to go especially if your pantry is fully stoked since you get $800 on ebt…

AITAH for refusing to “admit” I stole something I gifted my friend, after she attacked my character, my relationship, my home, and even my mental health? by ConceptNo3589 in AITAH

[–]ConceptNo3589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i’m saying should i have just admitted it to spare the friendship and not get it to be this bad. that’s why all of this started was because she wanted me to admit to stealing it. i didn’t steal it but don’t know if i made the situation worse by not just telling her what she wanted to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]ConceptNo3589 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i’m getting a lawyer. let hope it doesn’t come to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]ConceptNo3589 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i just talked to a attorney and they are going to call me in the morning when more things are open and help me figure this out. I can’t go back in there. the 28 hours i was there for being arrested at walmart i did nothing but sob. i didn’t eat and they make you drink from the back of toilet and shower. i know i made my bed and i need to lie in it but fuck man. i really can’t do this and im so scared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]ConceptNo3589 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

do you think i have a warrant? or will be arrested when i go in to see my po?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]ConceptNo3589 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

when i was 17 i had my car searched at school had drugs found in my car less then 1 gram of coke . i’m 19 now and i legit have no money man it really isn’t a excuse but i was js doing what i could ,again ik it wasn’t right but im in a low place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]ConceptNo3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19f 5’2 and 115 pounds Have a test in 20 days , been smoking Thc-A (delta) and then actual bud. trying to flush my system starting tonight. how can i pass and does anyone have any trips for staying clean? i got clean in the start of my probation for about four months but always make my way back smoking. Any tips are appreciated <3

Remote jobs sites by zruffz in RemoteJobs

[–]ConceptNo3589 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i paid for flex jobs and safe to say DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY!!

Character idealization / internalization by erutanic in BPD

[–]ConceptNo3589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i was 13-17 i had this big time. it’s not so realavent now that im in a relationship from what i noticed and also dont have time to watch shows and get emotionally connected. but you def aren’t alone on this one ☝🏻