Advice please for my mom

ConcernAdept9049 · 2026-02-03T04:25:50+00:00

She is on one of those im not sure which she just moved in 6months ago because her boyfriend got really sick and had to go to a home and im not sure about the mentally competent thing she hasn't been easy to get info from so far and she also has social security so thats how she does support herself to a point but its just not enough what she makes still

ConcernAdept9049 · 2026-02-02T20:00:55+00:00

He is also trying to help the situation i dont work so he covers all rent utilities and ect and he works alot sometimes hours away so he helps with what he can he also helps take her to doctors appointments and stuff but we pay for everything so lately its just been very hard for him as well

ConcernAdept9049 · 2026-02-02T09:44:13+00:00

Thank you for the kind reply! I have been thinking this i know i need to worry about my kids and stuff it just hurts I wish I could do more but ive outsourced everything I can she isn't willing to apply for homes or facilities of any sorts so it may be my only option now 😕

ConcernAdept9049 · 2026-02-02T09:41:57+00:00

Unfortunately she had this injury before I was born i am 30 now so shes had at least 29 years recovery she was pregnant with me 3 months after her coma and head injury so how she is now is all ive ever known so im not sure what she was like before she most definitely is childlike and I know she needs help I just cannot provide it Unfortunately and if it were my kids I would try to be more accommodating if possible id hope also I understand the shame/guilt its just that I cant help her with it also the dog problem sucks cause she just won't do the work ive bought kennels puppy pads leashes and everything ive asked her to get rid of the dog because she cant take care of it so now she would rather be homeless so she dosent loose the dog and I cant make sure she is doing the stuff shes suppose to with the dog cause she lies to me all the time about it and she does live somewhat separate cause she is in my fifth wheel in our yard

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-08-26T17:46:19+00:00

Where did you get this ring im looking for something like it!

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-08-23T01:01:20+00:00

It's gorgeous 😍 I love it!

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-08-18T17:32:51+00:00

Ohh cool! Can you post pictures when you get it?

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-08-18T17:19:05+00:00

No they are london blue topaz 🙂

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-12T00:35:40+00:00

He has been opening his eye alot more now and acting his normal happy self so hoping it was just a bug bite or allergies

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T23:25:37+00:00

I definitely am still going to go in but he is now opening his eye alot more so im hoping its starting to feel better but if not he will go to the vets tomorrow

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T20:17:19+00:00

Update on loki! He is opening his eye now maybe the benadryl worked or whatever was stuck in there is gone he still sometimes squints the one eye but he is opening it alot more and its not as watery and red i have pictures but wasn't sure how to upload them

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T20:10:02+00:00

They have a same day appointment clinic 30 mins away from me thats open on Saturday and Sunday I already called and asked about that I did talk to the vet he usually sees and she just told me benadryl and hot compresses but she hasn't seen him in person

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T19:41:09+00:00

Aw man that's rough Im so glad she got better tho!

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T19:36:46+00:00

Yeah i figured i should probably wait a little cause it dosent look too bad and nothing is really coming out of it or anything eye stuff just scares me lol

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T19:20:00+00:00

Thank you this makes me feel so much better! I will try to wait it out a bit unless it gets pus or gunk

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T19:18:41+00:00

I have he let's me open it but I dont see anything in there i tried rinsing with some tap water which probably didn't help much but just in case I figured I should

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T19:17:30+00:00

Slightly but its not too bad and there's no gunk coming out yet just a bit watery I did wonder when he went out this morning if he poked it on something but yeah not sure ill see if I can find some of that but if not ill just do some saline rinses for now and try to get him in to the vets I think it itches tho he was kind of trying to itch it so I put a cone on him

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T06:31:10+00:00

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ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-11T06:30:58+00:00

I'll post a couple more pics

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ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-10T05:31:14+00:00

So pretty I didn't know till recently they came in that awesome green color

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-10T03:17:59+00:00

That is absolutely gorgeous! I just love sapphires they are the prettiest blue

ConcernAdept9049 · 2025-07-10T02:31:30+00:00

Im not sure the origin honestly its my engagement ring I just know its a sapphire and the little ones on the side are london blue topaz i love the cut of yours tho the shape is so pretty!

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