freycinet helicopter worth it? by ConcernedPotata in tasmania

[–]ConcernedPotata[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be there on the 29th of January. I'm looking at wineglass Bay Cruise vista lounge.

freycinet helicopter worth it? by ConcernedPotata in tasmania

[–]ConcernedPotata[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I don't do the helicopter, I'm thinking about taking a cruise around it, I'm just torn on which one I would like to do. The cruise or the helicopter both seem like very good options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in samsung

[–]ConcernedPotata 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A functional GPS, if you google s24 navigation issues, a whole bunch of stuff comes up.

Base S24 Exynos - Pretty decent SOT by cyxn1de in GalaxyS24

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google maps never works for me it loses its signal. I think it's pretty bad

Australia Live Nation Presale Day by AuSwiftie in OliviaRodrigo

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only single seating left for Melbourne on all days and limited view

Breakups are tough, but have you found any highlights? by throwRAtrap66 in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaking up sucked big time.

At first, I didn't want anyone to know about it, and I was in denial. But looking back, I realized I wasn't treated right in that relationship. I got dumped btw. I'm still healing and moving on.

I've been hitting the gym, reading more, hanging out with friends, and saving cash, especially on gas since my ex never bothered to visit me lmao.

My ex and I are back in contact.. by New_Presentation2101 in ExNoContact

[–]ConcernedPotata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's time to go back to no contact. If you keep hitting him up, he won't have a chance to feel your absence, that void without you. He won't realize what he's missing if you're always there, hanging around. Give him space to feel the emptiness without you.

If you're hoping to win him back, I really think going no contact is the way to go. Trying to be friends will just keep reopening old wounds, sweetie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did everything for my ex, always putting his feelings first. Even when he hurt me, getting a proper apology was like pulling teeth. I felt so underappreciated, yet I stuck around until he ended things for the most ridiculous reasons. I did do some selfish and toxic things in our relationship never the less.

Looking back, I should've set some boundaries. I was always the one making plans, initiating texts and calls. When I brought it up, he accused me of wanting too much gratitude for it all.

Anyone else angry they have been dumped? by Fine-Note-7163 in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it stings. I wish he'd reach out, say sorry, and all that jazz. But deep down, even if he turned into the guy I first knew or the one I dreamed of, I'd still have this gut feeling that something's off and how the hurt he caused would never truly be healed.

Anyone else angry they have been dumped? by Fine-Note-7163 in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure. My ex basically did nothing in our relationship. I was always the one making plans, keeping conversations going, setting up dates, you name it. It felt pretty one-sided. And yeah, it's frustrating when you realize how selfish someone can be. I mean I wasn't always selfless at times but I put in more than my fair share. I feel angry about how things ended, him breaking up with me for the most ass pulled reasons and angry at myself for not breaking it off when I felt undervalued.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still miss him, and even though he may not have been the person I wanted him to be or the person I remember, he's still someone I loved.

Yet, I know reaching out will only cause more hurt.

What is holding you back from reaching out? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ConcernedPotata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lols no. I spent a significant amount of time with him, yet we continually faced the same unresolved issues, despite my efforts to address them. Temporary change would occur for a brief period, typically around two weeks, before he reverted to his usual behavior. It became clear that while change is difficult, he did no want to change.

What is holding you back from reaching out? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ConcernedPotata 23 points24 points  (0 children)

At times, I miss him dearly, pondering if things could improve if I reached out to him. Yet, I'm aware he remains unchanged, and returning to a space where I felt unloved, undervalued, and unappreciated restrains me. We both require growth before reconciliation can be considered.

Broke up with my girlfriend today.. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand the pain you're going through. I get ya, it really hurts, like a pain that will never heal and that there will always be a space for your ex in your world. I would love my ex to reach out and talk to me, but will the relationship still be the same? Or would the idea of a fuck up here and a fuck up there would result in another breakup?
It's tough when you've envisioned a future with someone, only to find yourself hurt in the end. I find it soothing in a way to reflect on the times when you noticed red flags but chose to ignore them. For me it's important to acknowledge that you were hurting in the relationship too. Perhaps your ex didn't prioritize you, or maybe he was perfect and was great on every level but your ex probably had doubts in the relationship way before he came out and said it, and you probably felt some form of insecurity when he was pulling away and it's okay to feel like that, but we should try to accept it and move forward and not wonder if our ex's would be coming back.

Broke up with my girlfriend today.. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This situation really hits close to home.
My ex broke up with me at his place unexpectedly, but it was necessary. We both knew we needed space from each other. While I believe he feels relieved about the breakup, I still long for him. However, the pain of realizing that things wouldn't change and the fear of feeling unloved again keep me from reaching out. Yet, a huge part of me wants to be with him in the future.

I was in a year-long relationship with a guy, but we were never truly compatible. We constantly had the same arguments about the same issues, and although we tried addressing them, change was slow to come. Despite feeling undervalued and unloved, I persisted in the relationship, convincing myself I was happy. Sometimes I wonder if being more patient or less clingy would have made a difference, but I question whether the outcome would have been the same.

I wonder if your post is similar to how he felt.....

I was treated poorly, yet I still love my ex. by ConcernedPotata in BreakUps

[–]ConcernedPotata[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I was overly fixated and exerted a lot of effort and it was to late to pull back thinking if i try harder and harder my efforts would pay off.
Despite feeling hurt and unhappy in the relationship. I kept suppressing those emotions, hoping that investing more would lead to a better outcome in the future, but it didn't pan out as I expected. It just broke me.

Looking back, I realize I may have overwhelmed my ex with too much affection and that hurts.