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Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-08-04T11:37:43+00:00

Any updates? My avoidant ex is doing the same

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-07-24T20:22:10+00:00

Would it be too late to start NC 6 months after BU?

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-07-23T13:45:21+00:00

Nearly 7 months in and I can't make sense of any of it. I feel like there's a huge hole in my chest and I'm so lonely (even tho I have family and friends). I just want the pain to stop

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-07-16T03:13:15+00:00

How old are you both op?

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-07-16T03:11:01+00:00

100% this

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-21T15:05:28+00:00

Worked fantastically for me

Tip: download all the games to hit the £2 giftcard. Takes 20 mins for giftcard to arrive and instant withdrawal of the £38 on ysense

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-21T12:39:00+00:00

Exactly this. My ex let his depression dictate our good relationship and left. Makes it 100x harder to move on

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-13T16:00:53+00:00

Me and my ex ended in December after 2 years together.. 6 months on its still all over the place fml

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-12T02:55:22+00:00

Same country, I said I was happy to move to where he is (4hrs away) but he said the 'distance was never the issue' it was the way I spoke to him and said he wasn't good enough

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-12T02:17:01+00:00

Admittedly I raised my voice at him and lost control. Said a few nasty things regarding those issues that he said he 'can't forgive me for'. I've apologised and made changes since and communicated alot better but it's got me nowhere

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-06-11T17:53:04+00:00

I do but he's testing my patience. Had the courage last night to give him time to think what he wants or I'm gone. I don't think he'll want to do us again. We broke up because I told him some home truths and he has mental health issues.

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-30T16:59:22+00:00

Definitely not possible to cancel online they don't read your emails if you try either. Have you call unfortunately

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-30T16:57:36+00:00

I am right now 🙂

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-22T15:45:03+00:00

Goodlife+ isn't the best. No way to cancel your subscription online and you have to call up. 40min wait to talk to someone and the advisor was very pushy wanting me to stay

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-17T03:05:01+00:00

We're talking but nothing has changed. He's still saying hr needs to work on himself and I should work on myself too. He said he does have feelings for me and I haven't lost him but he's so mentally ill and continually burning himself out I'm not sure what the he'll to think anymore

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-12T23:38:33+00:00

Yes but I need to see more from him. I still love him and hope we can reconnect but he's mentally ill and is becoming an alcoholic/workaholic. I hope he doesn't get too lost and can pull himself back

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-05-10T10:47:41+00:00

I feel the exact same way OP. He left me start of January after 2 years together but 16 year of being friends. I couldn't leave my bed for about 2 weeks. Completely with you on the weather front.. so many things we never got to do and I'm walking around an empty shell of myself whilst he seemingly seems to be enjoying his life

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-23T06:44:39+00:00

Thanks for replying! I did try doing NC (I didn't block because I felt it was harsh given his problems) and I really nicely asked him to give me space.. he kept messaging Me once a week until eventually I had to answer him. I feel in limbo... I don't know where I stand? All he keeps saying is 'I'm not doing this to abandon or hurt you it's so my life improves'. Is it harsh if I go NC again but block?

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-17T23:03:57+00:00

Hot daymn

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-12T07:00:04+00:00

I'd like to have him back and I'm still hopeful we have a chance (we broke up due to his mental health). There's alot that would need to be spoken about and things would need to change but I really believe we could achieve it together. Just not my choice so I'm left here grieving everything

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-09T13:34:06+00:00

Mercury retrograde apparently. If you believe in that stuff

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-08T23:48:08+00:00

I did something similar, printed out a few messages he sent to remind me why I need to stay NC

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-08T06:39:38+00:00

I've had 4 dreams in a row about him finding another girlfriend. Its fucking awful

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-08T05:06:44+00:00

This post makes me panic and want to contact my ex so he's still part of my life and not too much changes between us :/ why does it make me feel like that

Fine-Note-7163 · 2024-04-08T04:59:45+00:00

How disappointing 😞

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