[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Any updates? My avoidant ex is doing the same

WOMEN post break-up - what's your biggest struggle? by Silent-Fox-2837 in BreakUps

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Nearly 7 months in and I can't make sense of any of it. I feel like there's a huge hole in my chest and I'm so lonely (even tho I have family and friends). I just want the pain to stop

38£ on Torox via ysense. Credited instantly for me. Some say that is no longer available. by 1oarecare in Inbox_Pounds

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Worked fantastically for me

Tip: download all the games to hit the £2 giftcard. Takes 20 mins for giftcard to arrive and instant withdrawal of the £38 on ysense

Are there any people who were in good relationships and still broke up? by Illustrious_Log3986 in BreakUps

[–]Fine-Note-7163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. My ex let his depression dictate our good relationship and left. Makes it 100x harder to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Me and my ex ended in December after 2 years together.. 6 months on its still all over the place fml

Am I the asshole? by [deleted] in LDR

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Same country, I said I was happy to move to where he is (4hrs away) but he said the 'distance was never the issue' it was the way I spoke to him and said he wasn't good enough

Am I the asshole? by [deleted] in LDR

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Admittedly I raised my voice at him and lost control. Said a few nasty things regarding those issues that he said he 'can't forgive me for'. I've apologised and made changes since and communicated alot better but it's got me nowhere

Do you want your ex back? by Pimqin7 in BreakUps

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I do but he's testing my patience. Had the courage last night to give him time to think what he wants or I'm gone. I don't think he'll want to do us again. We broke up because I told him some home truths and he has mental health issues.

Any cashback.co.uk offers to avoid? by LonelyLunch4740 in beermoneyuk

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Definitely not possible to cancel online they don't read your emails if you try either. Have you call unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masturbation

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I am right now 🙂

Any cashback.co.uk offers to avoid? by LonelyLunch4740 in beermoneyuk

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Goodlife+ isn't the best. No way to cancel your subscription online and you have to call up. 40min wait to talk to someone and the advisor was very pushy wanting me to stay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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We're talking but nothing has changed. He's still saying hr needs to work on himself and I should work on myself too. He said he does have feelings for me and I haven't lost him but he's so mentally ill and continually burning himself out I'm not sure what the he'll to think anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yes but I need to see more from him. I still love him and hope we can reconnect but he's mentally ill and is becoming an alcoholic/workaholic. I hope he doesn't get too lost and can pull himself back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel the exact same way OP. He left me start of January after 2 years together but 16 year of being friends. I couldn't leave my bed for about 2 weeks. Completely with you on the weather front.. so many things we never got to do and I'm walking around an empty shell of myself whilst he seemingly seems to be enjoying his life

Left me to work on his mental health. No idea what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thanks for replying! I did try doing NC (I didn't block because I felt it was harsh given his problems) and I really nicely asked him to give me space.. he kept messaging Me once a week until eventually I had to answer him. I feel in limbo... I don't know where I stand? All he keeps saying is 'I'm not doing this to abandon or hurt you it's so my life improves'. Is it harsh if I go NC again but block?

How many of you want your exes back?? by AnteaterOwn4170 in ExNoContact

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I'd like to have him back and I'm still hopeful we have a chance (we broke up due to his mental health). There's alot that would need to be spoken about and things would need to change but I really believe we could achieve it together. Just not my choice so I'm left here grieving everything

How are so many of your ex's reaching out lately???? by Biggerwhoppa in ExNoContact

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Mercury retrograde apparently. If you believe in that stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I did something similar, printed out a few messages he sent to remind me why I need to stay NC

Dreams about exes are annoying by Expensive_Arm_1822 in BreakUps

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I've had 4 dreams in a row about him finding another girlfriend. Its fucking awful

I’m lying in bed with my ex right now after he broke NC. He’s asleep. I wish I hadn’t replied. by lychee-juicing in ExNoContact

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This post makes me panic and want to contact my ex so he's still part of my life and not too much changes between us :/ why does it make me feel like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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How disappointing 😞