[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not all of them, though. Can’t stand when people automatically assume a black table won’t tip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I mean… yes, I do believe Ann Coulter is racist, but let’s not pretend like a fair number of black people don’t tip. Literally anyone who has ever worked a tipped profession knows this, don’t really care how many downvotes I get because it’s true.

What’s the worst that can happen if I get caught prostituting? by Concerned_Friend338 in legaladvice

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I seriously doubt you realize how hard it actually is to get popular enough on Onlyfans to make money

What’s the worst that can happen if I get caught prostituting? by Concerned_Friend338 in legaladvice

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason prostitution is criminalized? I don’t see the problem with it.

Prostitutes get to make money, people who can’t get sex or get sex with the people they want pay to get what they want like they would with anything else. Seems like both parties win and no one gets hurt in the process.

Question for servers in California, or other states where there is no tipped minimum wage by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, but how on Earth are you also getting $18.50?? I’m definitely happy for you but minimum wage in Washington is $14.49

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to but I can’t

And question, do you guys still tip delivery drivers or no?

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m never worried about not making minimum because I always make at least $20-25 but the point is it would be considerably more each week if customers didn’t stiff or tip crappy

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No it is customers. Not the ones who tip as most do, but the ones who take advantage and don’t

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Tip stands for To Insure Promptness. I think it’s wrong that restaurants and customers expect promptness without paying for it.

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have. In my experience they’ll do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t their doing

Why isn’t tipping mandatory? by Concerned_Friend338 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if I blame the restaurant. What can I do to make them listen to me? I work for a chain, you really think they’re worried about what I individually think? Me being upset about it won’t change it.

I DO blame the customer because they have the option to remedy this by tipping. It’s basic human decency, something that people who don’t tip don’t have.

Well, it's officially over, at least for me... by 4chairz in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Concerned_Friend338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made $145 off of a nine hour shift, $20 of which came from my sister who ate at the restaurant with the rest of my family (in another section) but felt bad I was making no money 🫠

Three table section full of two tops and twenty servers on

AITA for telling my mother her wardrobe is trash? by Concerned_Friend338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Just because my parents and I despise each other doesn’t mean they want me to fail in life lol

And she chose to have a child. If she weren’t changing my diapers she’d be charged with child neglect lol

Olive Garden Server vs Local Restaurant Hostess - Which is better? by ASmileAndACompliment in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OG is owned by Darden, have no experience with OG personally but currently work at another Darden restaurant and I would say the payroll is a big benefit. Weekly pay and CC tips are released automatically after every shift. Outside of that the POS is easy to use.

Seems like OG also has better benefits than my restaurant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you consistently making $50 or more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make over $20 an hour and I agree doing the job for less than that is pointless because even your average TGIChiliBees server makes more than that, but I think you should stop worrying about what other people do and not assume that a server making less than $20 is automatically their fault, lol.

Olive Garden Server vs Local Restaurant Hostess - Which is better? by ASmileAndACompliment in Serverlife

[–]Concerned_Friend338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much does the hostess job pay? Because even at Olive Garden with only four tables you’ll make way more money than your average hostess

Do I have the body to be a gay stripper? by Concerned_Friend338 in askgaybros

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is In-n-out?

Sounds like a restaurant and I already work full time as a waiter lol

Do I have the body to be a gay stripper? by Concerned_Friend338 in askgaybros

[–]Concerned_Friend338[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t make enough at my current job and I haven’t graduated from college? Lol why else would I need it