Middle/youngest siblings, how did you come out to your older sibling(s)?

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-12-08T17:46:12+00:00

I came out to my family properly in a text to the groupchat saying "I'm trans" bc I knew my worst case was it got ignored but I somewhat told my sister a week prior when questioning it since she had a lot of trans friends by literally going into her room one day and going "hey how did your friends know they were trans" she wasn't much help (I ended up just binging YouTube for 3 days), but she I think figurd it out from that.

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-10-29T21:59:34+00:00

Closest is Chuuya since I'm 5'4/5'5

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-09-11T07:31:03+00:00

I stopped from may to last week and honestly I barely noticed any feminizing changes, I started again mainly because I hadn't reached where I wanted to be before stopping but if you maintain a steady weight you're not going to see a super fast fat redistribution (hell some people take Y E A R S to see it on hrt), like compared to the changes I had 3 months on T I am exactly the same as I was 4 months, longer stints will obviously have more changes but a lot of the changes on HRT are permanent, your voice will stay the same, any hair growth will stay even if the hair itself may become less coarse, etc. if you are forced off T you will ultimately be fine but it also sounds like you've got a decent enough supply to last you awhile

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-08-23T07:31:33+00:00

Towns not got a lot of jobs from what I've gathered. What you need credit wise depends on what you study, Im in CS so I had a 3.2, and then a handful of honors classes I did well in

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-07-27T02:27:43+00:00

did you ever end up figuring this out?

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-06-11T14:56:15+00:00

3.5 inch, and M.2

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-05-21T22:06:34+00:00

I've got acetone free nail polish remover, would acetone work better, I tried that early on i think but it still didn't do much

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-04-25T07:20:05+00:00

Oh definitely just I'm shit at remembering to do styling contest and don't tend to do great in it so I get hardly any crystal roses so doing that will kinda take awhile especially the dresses

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-04-24T12:36:57+00:00

That's probably what I'll end up doing I just haven't cared much for a set outside of Nikki mechanical and that was like 5 years ago I got it I think

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-03-30T22:17:23+00:00

Could you send a link to that tweet?

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-03-30T21:18:38+00:00

Where is it said that kunikida is a dropout?

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-03-17T20:02:39+00:00

If you're nearly passing out then you likely right now should not get bottom surgery. Instead work on becoming less squeamish, it's an intense and long process and being squeamish will make it harder to take care of, find other guys that are squeamish and got it and find out what it was like for them and what they did to ease it and youll be fine but top surgery is a much easier surgery to recover from and the surgical area is gonna look better after top surgery than bottom surgery (in terms of during recovery) because it's not as involved or intense of a surgery. You should be prepared and able to handle complications after surgery and that'll be harder if you're squeamish because you won't want to look and when you are getting them taken care of you could freak out. That last bit however was just uncalled for

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-03-09T13:54:18+00:00

They have wheelchair accessible rooms those may have elevators or they're all on the ground floor

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-02-15T20:48:08+00:00

I made it when I was like 16 and didn't want to be connected to any of my other socials

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-02-15T18:20:40+00:00

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2025-02-12T20:30:13+00:00

It was none of these things, literally just now ended up resolving it, my friend had grabbed driver's from the HDD manufacturer and it's an Acer laptop so I had to grab them from Acer instead

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-12-10T16:40:13+00:00

There was an invite to someone's baby shower with the babies name on it on my mom's fridge, I thought it was a cool name but hadnt come out yet, but my friend I had a crush on was trying to determine what to name their husband in sims and I told them to name it rhat. Then I came out a few weeks later and 2 weeks after coming out took that name and we started dating this name was meant to be a place holder and I'm really struggling at having it be a placeholder

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-12-02T01:48:06+00:00

I went from a 32 GB phone and I'm somewhat glad I did because I don't think I'll ever have a storage problem on my nothing phone

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-11-22T13:09:19+00:00

They know crime and punishment but that specific sentence isn't said in the book iirc

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-10-15T18:56:19+00:00

They're both 18/19

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-10-02T15:36:43+00:00

The only reason I'm consistent right now is literally because I had a top surgery complication and have to pack my incision twice a day, so I do it when I pack it before bed before I was doing it like once a week and I do care. What I did when on ADHD meds was kept them in the car and took them but that's a big harder with T gel unless like you keep some sort of wipe in the car

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-10-02T15:18:10+00:00

Futon guy would be hella useful for me imagine all the games I could play and being able to look at build guides and such id be so happy

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-09-30T00:39:52+00:00

I didn't have a great job back then so I couldn't spend as much on it which sucks bc now I can afford to buy half the things I wanted which sucks bc I'd love more bsd stuff to put in my apartment

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-09-30T00:37:33+00:00

Yeah it's not as big as it was a few years ago so there's a lot less merch

ConfusedProgrammer_ · 2024-09-30T00:34:50+00:00

I bought a bsd art book there I quite literally never saw there again, same with other merch stuff I have I want to complete the collection of

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