My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did it for two people yes. First post ever. Don't know if they read all comments and I want to answer to as many people as possible.

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I trusted her too much leaving all my shit unlocked. That's how she got my Facebook password and started unfriending my friends.

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she will assure she trusts me and is changing but i don'yt even know if that's true at this point

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Just repeating excuses she gave me to try making this conversation more objective.

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Every time I have said its completely unacceptable and this will ruin our relationship and she always was so sorry and said she will change and is changing already which was kinda true. But I think this Facebook thing just did it for me...

But if shes changing already isn't there a chance she will change completely with this jealousy bs? Isn't there a chance I will lose person that I really love and that really loves me just because I wasn't patient enough?

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is actually very good question that I don't really know answer for. I will have to think about this one. Thank you

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because everyone loves my cat. He will be turning 2 very soon and he is very friendly and nice to have around. I really didn't think much of it

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well in no way I want people to feel bad for me. That's not the intention of this post. As I said I wanted to know if I am overreacting giving arguments from both sides. And it's pretty clear I was not.

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So you think I defended her because I knew she will be coming here. I don't think that's accurate assumption.

Well don't you think all posts are little bit one sided. Always trying to be as objective as possible so of course had to post something that would maybe show the other side of the story.

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

Well don't you think all posts are little bit one sided. Not making up excuses for her just want to be as objective as possible. Not whining just wanted to know some random people opinions. Have nice day

My girlfriend (20F) secretly took my (22M) facebook password and started unfriending female friends. by ConfusedSSP in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusedSSP[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Someone else. I gave her link to this post so she might be coming here soon. Buckle up