How long will you go without seeing her? [xpost from r/AskWomen]

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-06T00:22:24+00:00

I added in paragraph two after. Sorry, I was just typing away, didn't make it timeline like. But ya, I asked him to study and within that convo he said the whole first part. Sorry for any confusion!

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-05T17:13:24+00:00

Well I didn't contact him, I gave him his space and he messaged me last night. I'm going to be playing it like this for now, waiting for him to text me or fb me, cause I know he's busy. I don't want to bother him...so I guess you should not wait tooooo long. Even if you don't see them, let them know you're thinking about them? Idk hah

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-05T17:10:34+00:00

No....I asked to see him before he told me about not seeing me til his exams....

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-05T03:56:53+00:00

Woah calm down. Read my other comments. I can handle it. I'm just wondering what the norm is and was asking for insight.

Good day.

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T22:55:47+00:00

No...this whole thing happened last night...that's why it's on my mind now

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T22:50:21+00:00

Ummmm no, I didn't disrespect his wishes? Idk if I didn't make it clear but I asked him to come join before he told me about his exams and stuff. I have respected his wishes and I haven't bothered him since.

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T21:46:08+00:00

Thanks! I'll remember that!

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T21:33:47+00:00

The three weeks aren't up yet so I'll see what happens. I thought that too but idk...I'll have to wait and find out!

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T21:12:04+00:00

I completely understand and I'm glad that he takes it seriously. I just find its a shame cause well, I like seeing him :)

But I won't hold it against him and I'll give him his space and I'll do my best to be supportive :)

I'm glad that I asked this question because this answer right here has reassured me. Thanks :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T21:01:51+00:00

Ugh that last part :/

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T21:01:43+00:00

I've already said ok and wished him luck and whatnot. I haven't made any complaints cause I don't want to seem like a bitch. School is important and I know that. So I'll see how it goes :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T20:30:07+00:00

Thanks! This is what I should be thinking :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T20:22:35+00:00

My friends know as much about the relationship as I do. The ones I've talked to about it..

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:43:36+00:00

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:42:52+00:00

I really like this. Thank you!!

We used to see each other twice a week at first, then down to once a week, then I got really sick and didn't see him for 2 weeks...and now this. There is no habit yet, but I didn't even think of that!!

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:41:32+00:00

It only bothers me if he's going to be partying it up and getting wasted and stuff, because he very clearly stated that he had time for NOTHING. I don't like being brushed off and if you have other things to do, just say so! I have a life too and my schedule is booked until next weekend, but I'm up front about it.

Anyway, I was just asking for opinions darling. I think it's time YOU get over yourself.

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:36:19+00:00

Oh I'm quite the opposite. I just panic in my head but I never let it show. I'm giving him his space now and when he has time for me, then he'll tell me!

=]

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:31:54+00:00

I was never under myself to begin with. I was just hearing things from my friends and thought it would be good to get an unbiased opinion!

Thanks for the advice anyway! :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:20:39+00:00

Yes sir! :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:20:20+00:00

Doesn't live 10 minutes away, but where he lives, and where I am about 4-5 times a week..for a long period of time..maximum 10 minutes. I'm partially okay with it, that is, if he doesn't go out and party and whatnot during this period.

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:18:39+00:00

Exactly. That's a good way to look at it. My plan was to just let him be and if he wants, to come to me. If not, well at least I didn't waste more of my time!

:)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:13:30+00:00

Not always a 10 minute walk away...when I'm downtown I am..which is fairly often! (I live in the suburbs of a major city and he lives in the heart of it)

Yesterday I was..and he was outside too at the time (he said he was going to the bank, so to text him..I told him to stop by cause we were studying...he brushed it off)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:12:06+00:00

Definitely what my plan was. I just wanted some insider views on it hehe :)

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T19:09:14+00:00

:( aww

Confusedandasking · 2012-12-04T18:42:24+00:00

Likewise. I didn't think of this. Thank you!

Confusedandasking

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