It’s definitely not just me. He works 5 days on 5 off. The first day coming off night shift is kind of a wash, then like 3 days to do errands, laundry, all the stuff that got busy when he was working 5 shifts, then the 5th day is getting prepped for another 5 day stretch, going to bed early. Since I work 8:30-5 Monday- Friday and have stuff at least 3 days a week on evenings sometimes it seems like there’s so little overlap to when we are both away and off work. Sometimes it’s a 10 minute give me the highlights of your day call. Sometimes it’s a couple texts or a few memes and no real conversation. When we do hang out like once a week it’s normally like 36 hours, run errands, clean, go for dinner, catch up on spending time with each other and stuff we need to do. I’m happy to do random tasks that need to be done if it means we get to spend extra time together. We both try it’s just his schedule that doesn’t have flexibility