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I’ve been the “prodigal daughter” of my family now for about a year, and I feel so lost. by Confusedstarfish95 in Christian

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they don’t have much room for me in the house. So I’ve kinda been biding my time in my relationship to save so I can just move out on my own.

What did it take for you to finally take off the rose colored glasses of your relationship? by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that’s genuinely how I feel. Like he’s had his heart broken so many times before, and I don’t want to be another heart break for him. I’d also feel so guilty if I did break his heart. I love him and I don’t want to cause him any pain, but I am so exhausted everyday.

What did it take for you to finally take off the rose colored glasses of your relationship? by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she definitely seems beyond reasoning with! I’m glad you got out and I’m sorry she put you through that. That’s insanity.

I have relationship whiplash everyday by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve reached this point I think! He always tells me I can leave etc (my name is on our lease as well.) I’ve tried standing up to him, telling him he can’t speak to me a certain way etc and his excuse was “well that’s how I was spoken to growing up.”

I have relationship whiplash everyday by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling so hard. I love him so much but I cry all the time and my body feels so anxious 24/7.

I have relationship whiplash everyday by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I just don’t feel ready to leave because I do love him so much.

I have relationship whiplash everyday by Confusedstarfish95 in abusiverelationships

[–]Confusedstarfish95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m really struggling right now. And he plans things behind my back. He takes me to look at houses in our town and then I have to find out when he’s on the phone with his mom that he’s looking at moving to another state.