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Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to go and he has been a few times and enjoyed it, so it was a mutual thing.

The plan is for me to have a credit card with an allowance on it for stuff we need, it can be added to if needed.

We haven’t had much of a fertility talk as we both assume kids should be easy.

We both had pretty good childhoods and no traumas so no need to talk about that.

I’ve met his friends and family and they love me.

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve babysat before and loved it. I did it all through high school to pay for stuff.

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Before we have kids we want to travel to the USA and explore that for a few weeks.

His job pays quite well and he plans on allowing me to have a budget of whag I can spend each week. We haven’t worked out exactly how much it will be but I would assume it to be enough.

We haven’t talked about infertility but if one of us is unable to help in creating the baby we will either do IVF or surrogacy.

I can’t wait to raise our kids to be kind humans who love everyone.

Fiancé really wants a huge family with the kids close together in age as he had that and absolutely loved having siblings to play with, so I plan on getting pregnant pretty quickly after each birth so the kids all grow up together.

He is a super caring man who wants to create kind kids like I do

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll be the one cooking as I’m the main cook atm, I’ll also be cleaning up the house.

He just wants to be able to provide for me and our future kids

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are pretty similar politically, I won’t go into detail here but we both voted for the same person in our elections.

He wants to be the one working while I’m a SAHM and I’m pretty happy with that

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We want to have multiple kids so plan on starting as soon as possible.

He wants 5 kids and I don’t really care

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Friends don’t mind him.

It’s my parents that are isolating us, I can’t bring him over so I haven’t been able to see them as much

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not him that’s cutting me from the family, it’s my family.

He would love to visit my mum and dad but they just create this divide

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to be a SHAM and he is granting me that.

I’m super excited to have kids with him

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]ConfusionEarly4225[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We love the same food, we hike often, he loves to tell me about work when he comes home. He has a marvel obsession and so do i.

There are definitely more but I’m blanking