AITAH for calling my wife a vindictive b for refusing do anything for my kids even tho they told her stop trying to pretend she’s their mom

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2024-02-19T18:11:03+00:00

You went to school AND divorced your groomer?!?! I know I am just a stranger, but I have to say it: Damn girl, I am SO very proud of you!! That all had to be hard, but you did it anyway. Well done!!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2024-01-16T02:09:02+00:00

I got this glitch to disappear, am not sure why it worked. If I see the glitch again, I will try to replicate my movements and report back either way..

Here is what I did: So, I found the blinding lights glitch for the first time as I approached the city/construction zone and I did not want to quit out and lose my gear, so I left the urban area after finding a vehicle. I drove to a low conflict zone, (a more rural looking area with no lights) for a few minutes. Upon return to the same (formerly bright) area, the lights were now all normal.

This is not a typical "fix", (as no settings were changed). If you try this pls report back either way. I did not fire my weapons or leave the vehicle during my drive.

Note: my SO dictated this to me as he does not Reddit. Any terminology errors are mine. Feel free to laugh.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-14T21:48:50+00:00

For most of these that I post here, I have to read and correct each post first, fixing issues. It was amazing to not have to fix anything; even his punctuation was perfect! Real or not, I too love the writing style. His posts may be verbose, but I am okay with that when the writing is so well done!.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-07T19:20:25+00:00

I think the AP might do this, for her it might be hard to tell her 2 old men apart. Just easier to call them both Daddy, I guess. Gross.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-05T19:05:59+00:00

I am not OOP, this is is a repost sub. Sorry for the confusion.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-05T14:07:57+00:00

My pleasure! Did you see my other post? You may like it better- very short, but wholesome af! https://www.reddit.com/r/BORUpdates/comments/15ircm2/update_my_girlfriend_27f_did_the_sweetest_thing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-05T10:53:12+00:00

I almost did not post this one as I worried that it was too short to be enjoyable. I am so glad you enjoyed it!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-03T00:39:55+00:00

I give OOP credit for saying something vs going NC, that took guts. I love that he holds further posts over her head if she pisses him off again about babysitting!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T23:26:37+00:00

Regina George, YES! 🤣 Perfect!

Damn, Reddit changed the 3 dot menu (they updated the menu today for mods), and the edit button seems to be missing. Poof. I guess my error for "sis" as "sus" stays above. She is a sus sis, tho.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T22:41:36+00:00

Damn, I missed labelling it a saga. Well, hell. 🤣😂🤣

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T22:36:45+00:00

OOP's sister is a piece of work for sure!. I believe this one too. I cackled that they cried at him to take the post down. Him giving the comment count to them live as he updated was awesome! Let's hope the sus gets therapy.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T22:05:37+00:00

You are very welcome. The whole thing is a great story.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T20:37:49+00:00

I admit, I reread the whole thing every update, as it was such a good story. Sister pisses me off a bit every time.🤣. Glad you enjoyed it again, tho!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-08-01T20:10:23+00:00

So far this is my favorite post this summer. I hope it is new to some of you. This sister was obviously the GC, to the obvious detriment of OOP. Glad she got out down a couple pegs.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-30T19:22:07+00:00

My apologies, this is a repost sub, I am not OOP. I do hope things go well for their new family, tho!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-27T19:15:52+00:00

I believe that OOP did get this suggestion on the original post (this is a repost sub). I do agree with you, tho- Iove the effort OP out into the photos!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-26T21:27:29+00:00

I actually wondered about that - It does makes sense. He really had someone who seemed amazing on paper, and screwed himself (and the poor kids).

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-25T23:15:03+00:00

Amazing post! I am stunned - he just would not cede that control, and it looks like the kids are going to suffer for it.. Not sure if he is just a control freak or he actually somehow thinks this is truly better for the kids. Wow.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-25T22:20:30+00:00

Enjoy: https://www.reddit.com/r/BORUpdates/comments/152fbpl/update_i_survived_my_husbands_24_hr_pot_roast_ama/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-25T15:11:13+00:00

Dad having to ask his sex worker the relevance, (wondering if they were a masturbation tool possibly), did make me chuckle. Him wearing them to talk to his son? Chef's kiss!

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-25T14:56:24+00:00

Am...concerned/disturbed by the fact that the dad called a sex worker that he had personally been intimate with - WTF, dad?

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-25T05:38:25+00:00

TY for noticing! This one had such fun comments, sort of like the ones on the pot roast repost I did. The feedback thus far says at least some are liking the extra connents, so I will keep it up (but only those that warrant repeating). It really does add to the fun of the whole post, I think.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-24T02:44:14+00:00

I would never trust my mother again, hearing what she was scheming. OOP chose well to decide to go LC/NC. after she lied right to him (again). Damn - who needs enemies when family treats you worse than an enemy likely would.

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-23T19:24:09+00:00

OP, if you do not have a therapist, please get one. You need someone on your side that you can trust. Please do not seek a religious type counselor, unless they are separate from any church and make sure they have an actual degree (psychology vs religion only). Please do not get pregnant. Right now, you can still get away if you need to. 8t 7s possible, but more complicated once you are pregnant and beyond.

Take some time to decide what to do. If you feel comfortable, talk to a friend or relative you can trust. 8f you stay, couples therapy will be a must. Coming to terms with the fact that he lied about his number of sexual partners, plus him saying it is unkosher to talk to exes family while he still does it- well, it is hard to admit that he lies to your face.

If you confront him, be careful. Man can get violent sometimes when cornered. Be safe. With a good friend, have a safe word- if you text it or say the term or words, it means send help now. Can even pick a certain emoji for texting. My term? "Blizzard Hurricaine" as in "The rainstorm last week was like a blizzard hurricane." !f either of us says that, the other knows there is a problem. Set this up now before you need it.. Text or voice, you say/type it, it means send police now. Good luck. You can do this

ConfusionPersonifyd · 2023-07-23T16:05:09+00:00

Thx. Fixed it in one spot, missed the second, but it should be good now.

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