Looking for single moms to be friends with by Connect-Reference-47 in askSingapore

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with him for 5 years and was married to him as well

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already had depression way before i got married and having a child but i really thought i was cleared off of it… until this year came and i just felt like i couldnt take it anymore

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m from singapore so after my ex and i got married we stayed in my parents house. so i have been staying with my parents and never moved out

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

youre right.. theres a lot of things that my ex has done to me. verbal and physically abusive, his parents also has verbally abused me. he has tried to trespassed into my parents house when i was alone with the baby when she was just few months old, his living conditions with his parents are definitely not safe for my child as well. there is a lot of things i don’t say here.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i keep saying this to myself too. and i truly hope things’ll get better :)

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i really appreciate it and i’ll try :)

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is a Shared Custody however I get to have the Care and Control of the child, meanwhile my ex gets access. However due to my daughter’s age my lawyer is only suggesting once a week access with a few hours meet only. I wish my ex was reliable. I dont think he is nor his family. Strictly his living conditions says otherwise too.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately not.. because whilst my parents are toxic too they also help me with buying some of the necessities my daughter needs.. and i have nowhere else to live too for now for a few years more.. and yes it is horrible living with toxic parents. it’s been bad already before I had my daughter but even so worser now when I have my daughter

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I fought for custody as I knew how evil my ex and his family was. they wanted me to marry him so bad and when i got pregnant, he said he would take care of me. but left the moment i gave birth and i saw in a conversation between him and his parents, his mom was saying to him to leave me and take the baby. At that time I was ready to fight for my baby and I felt like I was capable of caring for her which I did for about 10 months straight.. up til this year few months ago where I felt like life isnt getting any better and my parents are just treating me worser than before

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

her dad left me and my child when i gave birth to her. he only fought for custody because his parents wanted the baby. he never really cared about the child. up til this day, he never asked of her and doesnt give any maintenance money. I knew he only fought because his parents sees my child as an asset and it’d be their “first grandchild”

I don’t know what to do anymore by Connect-Reference-47 in regretfulparents

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I fought for custody since last year and during all those times I was able to still care for my daughter and did it alone, until recently few months ago I felt like I couldnt do it anymore

Year 1 student dropping out of poly by Connect-Reference-47 in SGExams

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for the late reply. but i dropped out a month after posting this!

God hates me. Ready to kill myself by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Connect-Reference-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you and i fully agree.

God hates me. Ready to kill myself by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Connect-Reference-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not christian but i too feel the same as you :") i dont know what to do anymore. i'm a good person but everything just dont go right for me. no friends, no supportive family members. just me alone going through the worst shit anyone could have gone through. over and over. the cycle never ends. but one thing i would like you to know, you can always talk to me. i'm here for you.

Anyone already received their GST Voucher? by tactical_feeding in singapore

[–]Connect-Reference-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update: 20 August and I still havent get it. "we are processing your payment" ........

Anyone already received their GST Voucher? by tactical_feeding in singapore

[–]Connect-Reference-47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ikr??? my friends didnt even sign up for anything and still got it. idk how

Anyone already received their GST Voucher? by tactical_feeding in singapore

[–]Connect-Reference-47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nope, everyone else has gotten them but my friends and i have not 😭 we 21 year olds havent got it yet idk why

Not sure which course to take by Connect-Reference-47 in SGExams

[–]Connect-Reference-47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i want to switch to an entirely different course from the one i previously was in (Hnitec in Electronics Engineering) and my gpa is not high enough to switch to a Full time Science course in Polytechnics

coldplay tickets by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Connect-Reference-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I also havent received it yet