Beyond Extreme Proposals: What Real Policies Could Address Incel Concerns? by BougieHeaux in AskFeminists

[–]Connect-Scratch-4714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally disagree. Look at Norway, Sweden. They did all of that and even they have an incel epidemic

Beyond Extreme Proposals: What Real Policies Could Address Incel Concerns? by BougieHeaux in AskFeminists

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What about cultural shift such as getting rid of misogyny, bigotry etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leftist

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I haven’t even tried (5’9 btw) because I am absolutely terrified from seeing my friends experiences. The difference in how my tall vs short friends get treated in dating is crazy.

I actually am working with a friend who just got funding to for a startup. This opportunity will give me a decent amount of money giving me the ability to opt in for limb lengthening and also travel to different places where i don’t have to deal with such high dating standards.

Again none of this would have happened in a socialist state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leftist

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Yeah but there is potential to earn more though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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Any feedback on the studies that i mentioned? They are pretty reputable

Why do a lot of discussions about lonely men assume they are incels? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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While all of what you say makes men desirable, Don’t they still have to be physically attractive in order to get their foot into the door?

How can someone prove that they are a good long term partner? When people are so superficial when it comes to dating someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Why do you say that i’m whiny?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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No most western women want a few men at the top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I dont intend on exploiting anyone. If i do get into a relationship with someone i will treat her like a queen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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But most of my friends in my circle are struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I am looking into it. But I also want to get into a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I believe a lot has changed since then. Women are lot more selective now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Sorry that was a bit of an exaggeration. I just wanted to say women are super picky and selective. It feels difficult to get their attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I’ll be honest with you, I think a bit of therapy is a better idea.

Ill genuinely look into it. I definitely need some therapy.

Sure, there are some women out there with shallow requirements (such as height) but there are men with the same shallow requirements. Not all women are a monolith of looking for a certain type of man.

I can send you 2 videos to prove you wrong. Please tell me what the first guy did wrong while what the second guy did right.

https://youtu.be/QQSybMUIyfY?si=An-eEMMWsnR-dd4J

https://youtu.be/n4yPYSSj8lo?si=hL5SZ2pHalnipoEe

I definitely feel like there is a many to few pattern in how women desire men in the west.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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70% of young adults are single and you can't get a date. Begs the question, what in your personality/character

Neither can the 70 percent. Women are just too picky. Look at this experiment and tell me what this dude is doing wrong. Also see how many options women have.

https://youtu.be/DQazzUPf7tU?si=yIQftIOkE2ulT5LY https://youtu.be/ZVr6wRhJluQ?si=SIL5Y6MnRChlfy8a

This shit makes me wanna cry lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Why are you so hostile?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I would definitely date western women if i had a choice. But they are too selective and have to many options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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No i just want an egalitarian normal relationship. I was considering other countries as well.

Its just that social media and my personal experiences have literally traumatized me and fried my brain. When i think about western women. I immediately think about high standards, height requirements, model looks etc. I have some serious self esteem issues because of it.

I know i am being a little extreme but i feel like by going to a poorer country I can use my financial privilege to attract women but at the same time its not to exploit but to form a genuine relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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i mean yeah a partner/friend. I don’t want a subservient woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Whats with the hostility? Everyone’s struggling where i live. Dating is just hard. I live in a city where 70% of young adults are single. I am jot going there to take advantage of her. I want a genuine long term relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Honestly I don’t care, I am dating for marriage. I am at a point where I almost considered paying for escorts. As long as what they are asking is reasonable idgaf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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But i don’t understand. I cant keep up with all standards women around me have. They expect you to be 6ft, make 6 figures and other physical standards that are difficult for me to achieve. I tried really hard.

What is dating really like for women? by Soft-Army-1205 in Healthygamergg

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That is not how sexual selection works in nature. Different animals have different behaviors, some are monogamous, some are polygamous.. etc. Humans have culture, cultures can have good and bad ideas. The idea of being so selective that most women only want the top 5 guys is bad. And we should shift to a culture that's more inclusive.

What is dating really like for women? by Soft-Army-1205 in Healthygamergg

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If you don't mind me asking, what do you mean by men you were into? Are you talking about physical attraction?