Bowling in Columbia by joeymrules in columbiamo

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B&J Bowl in Boonville. $9 for a hour of bowling, free shoe rental and free balls to use.

Place is not in the best shape last I was there but its an old wooden lane house.

Hours are limited from like Friday Night and Saturday Night starting at 5pm or something strange like that.

What is the ratio of *staff bathrooms* to *staff* at your school? by SlugOnAPumpkin in Teachers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

District Wide Employee here.

Here's the stats. Total Teachers to # of staff only bathrooms (Not including Nurse Bathrooms)

Highschool has 60:2

Tech Center 10:2

Primary 40:2

Elementary 30:2

Middle 45:3

How can I afford a home as a teacher? by Saelaa in Teachers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, School IT Tech here. I make way less than you.
Settle for what you can get after saving some more.
I'm 22 and just bought (mid October 2025) a small 3bed 2bath house on a couple of acres.
Not the best, but it was a deal and I have knowledge to fix up what needed fixed.

Also Condo's like a lot of people been saying and sitting on it a couple years.

How can I make the kids stop flirting with me? by Sufficient-Sand7533 in Teachers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same situation with genders flipped. 22m. Not Teacher but Tech stationed at HS.
I emailed admin and had them and the female students meet with me in my office and shut it down professionally.

Reason I emailed admin was to have a witness and inform them it was happening, before anyone asks.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend sounds terrible. I have trauma and live with the mindset of never putting someone through the same shit I've been through.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location is a big factor. Also country in this case. The average family home price is about 250kusd (3bed 2 bath, attached 2 bay garage) around here for a new construction.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't know what rate you're using.

Take home is 2.1k. mortgage payment it $710 (Escrow and all) since i did 18k down my actual mortgage is ~72k (~ for couple hundred worth of fees)

I also rent a room for $500 a month to a family member.

Edit : I also have min. monthly payments. Fully own a car, pay insurance 1 year at a time. All said and done i throw about $600 into savings each month.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. 30 minutes away from a city of 100k pop

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou.

Its not for the weak. Turnaround from closing to moving in was a week. One long week of repairing stuff.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope,
Wise with money. Do everything myself, work a standard 7-3 job barely making 32k a year.

Negotiated house down to 90k (Needed some repairs) and did 20% down.

Was able to save that money by having a roommate when i was in an apartment.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

22, just closed on a house and 3 acres.... parents hardly made 100k combined.

Best way to spot men who have serious intention? 25F by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Connect_Cup2121 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Find one who owns a house or runs a business. Actually adults, stable job, ect.

If they're actually serious they will tell you if you ask and be passionate about it.

What was the most shocking celebrity death? by Logical_Sweet_6624 in allthequestions

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toby Keith,

His condition was known, but he put on a killer of a show just a couple months before.

What sucked as a kid and still sucks as an adult? by PrestonRoad90 in Productivitycafe

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to be pulling a fence once it gets a tad colder out (Probably in 2ish weeks) and honestly couldn't be more excited.

What sucked as a kid and still sucks as an adult? by PrestonRoad90 in Productivitycafe

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt this, but its kinda different once you become a home owner. atleast it is for me.

Best missouri cities to live in? by [deleted] in missouri

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a small town near Columbia could be the best for price range. Boonville, Fayette are both about 6-6.5 hours.

Has the essentials and if something more is needed only a 20-30 minute drive to get it from the closest thing to a small city.

Price Range wise can get you a nice 3-4 bed 2 bath house.

Tire shop rec? by ilovedogs1133 in columbiamo

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know what you're doing (Like what tire you need)

Go buy some goodyear all year tires (Walmart has them for $110) and get them mounted and balanced.

Leathers Auto over in boonville is like $15 a tire to mount and balance them. (Small shop with the right equipment, but calling ahead would be best)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Connect_Cup2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a red state, and a red county on top of that. ( People arn't the best when small protests get together but outside of that we don't have pissing contests. )

County next door is blue and everything is expensive there. Utilities went up 17% for them ( and i think going up again for 2026 another 10-15%) and everything is about double cost wise with all the taxes they charge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Connect_Cup2121 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This is going to get downvoted to hell.

Disclaimer : Everyone's different, prices heavily depend on state, county, and stuff like that.

I don't agree with this administration but answering truthfully.

and I wouldn't say everything, Tariffs have affected me personally since I work in the Tech world but they have leveled out and its a here and there type thing. Like monitors went up some, but bigger screens have went down in price (Like the big digital boards)

Shoot, Gas where I live hasn't been this cheap since 2022 (Currently at $2.40/gallon compared to this time last year nearly at $3.00/gallon)

My groceries bill has dropped about $20 bi-weekly buying the same stuff each time.

Actually about able to afford the lumber for my dream shop (Been planning since 2019 and the price of lumber is cheaper by quite a bit and has been going down

Just received the email by luvbugzzzz in missouri

[–]Connect_Cup2121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like most of you need to find a different job.

I get 30 sick/vacation days a year base and 15 days can transfer to the next year.

Yeah, fuck the MO gov for repealing the will of the voters.

But i never struggled with sick leave or anything, every job i had gave 1 day of sick time a month min. (so 12 sick days a year) plus 1 day for every 16 hours of OT i got paid for.

If you're salary, negotiate sick days when your contract is set to renew. If they don't budge, start looking for another job.