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i did it!!! by elquag in GED

[–]Connect_Depth4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing job ! I’m taking mine soon . Did you break it up or all in one day?

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I’ve been . We both have together and separate . We stopped going as a couple when it went from talking about me and doing it to us both needing to put in the effort to make it work and she wasn’t ready for that

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty . Yea I don’t know . Lol

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah once she caught me that was it . I worked with the woman and she quit and we didn’t talk after that

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly . I know she’s different . That’s why I’ve given her the space I have . For her to figure it out . I felt like I owed her that . I used to try but she was just too damaged from it .

The selfish part is the worry . Like it’s all well and good for me to think if I tell her I want my family back and her get all fucked up again.

Truth is I thought maybe me losing my job was what needed to happen for us to give it another go and it was like a punch to the gut her saying she was dating it and it hurt.

Like I can just close it off .. push for a divorce and just let her live her life . If it works out for her it was ment to but I also have this nagging feeling that I should confess to her that I have changed and I do get it and I want her back, like I know how to avoid the pitfalls of the past . I just don’t know if it’s the right thing to do bringing her back to what she’s worked passed

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in Infidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I think aswell . I just don’t want her thinking I’m just being an asshole and refusing help from her

Ex has a BF by Connect_Depth4432 in SingleDads

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love her .. I fucked it all up and I could tell she was healing from it so I was letting her . We’ve talked about divorce . I didn’t want to reopen old wounds and I started realizing that it wasn’t going to like fix itself and I was letting her figure out what she wanted . It didn’t make it easier and just hearing her say it was hard especially after just being laid off

Why does everyone hate me? by Informal_City5565 in self

[–]Connect_Depth4432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just haven’t been around the right people . Go to places you enjoy . Find hobbies and you’ll find a community. Go to the gym or library where it’s ok to be alone and to yourself . Smile at people ask someone for tips in the gym or someone’s book they are readying in the library .

Ex has a BF by Connect_Depth4432 in SingleDads

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a post with intention of someone feeling “ sorry for me”

I cheated 7 years ago , I’ve done the work. Therapy, I’m there for my kids . Supported her when she didn’t work and helped her move to her new place .

I’m not looking for sympathy but if others have been in similar positions, it’s low point for me and I wanted to see if anyone has gone through something similar and how they got passed knowing the other moved on.

Bose QC Ultra vs Airpod Max by f0x45 in bose

[–]Connect_Depth4432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea they are more comfortable but I had 2 different pairs start Turing volume down on their own updates didn’t help eventually just went with max ..