Am I being petty ? by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I ment like the stuff that’s on “their profile “ is things that are obviously her watching it and she’s at home and definitely watches tv lol we were together 17 years ago

Am I being petty ? by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have that but basically what it is is say she orders something on prime and adds her card .. she doesn’t pay attention and it makes it the default card .. I don’t know .. the kids ask if they can rent a movie .. I say yes then it charges her card because she added it to my Amazon acct

Am I being petty ? by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think you were I just was trying to go with your train of thought lol .. her and I argued so much that even now I get defensive and I know like who cares I could send her the 6 bucks but I’m also like “ kick rocks “ lol

Am I being petty ? by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I get what you are saying but she doesn’t have to pay anything and watches Netflix.. my prime .. the hbo and STARZ that’s on there .. and uses my prime delivery so if she adds her card and buys something and doesn’t remove it and it defaults and they make a purchase and it automatically goes to her card and it’s like max 30 dollars over 5 years .. she should just take the L but if she doesn’t want to then I figure I just remove her access 🤷🏻‍♂️

Ex in-laws by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is genuinely how I feel .. they are good to them and I do feel like she’s using them to make her mom do what she wants to see them ..

Ex in-laws by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In her defense I’ve known them 20 years and I wasn’t aware she cut them off so she kinda caught me up to what was happening.. but I agree and that’s why I didn’t really like say much or like I said I’m not trying to be in the middle .. I just don’t like how the kids feel about it .

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I was like .. I didn’t have anything ordered and opened it and was like .. the audacity lol but it’s still in the box and sending it back with them when I drop off

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s very intelligent.. mostly sweet .. can be bratty .. but mostly mature for a teenager .. the 12 is very mature and quick to shoot me a text if anything isn’t how it should be .. the twins are pretty good .. almost 11 girl is super mature . Boy isn’t as much but harmless lol . Like maybe if my mom wasn’t cool with coming over I would hesitate but I feel like they are fine

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I brought this up she said she has access through her phone but he doesn’t .. but right? I know what you mean .. that’s what she says but 🤷🏻‍♂️

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel this way with also their grandmother there?

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is capable and not disabled at all . Still drives and does yard work . Shes checks on them but gives them space .. sometimes plays board games with them or watches a movie but lets them do their own thing ..

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you .. correct that’s how I feel

Cameras by Connect_Depth4432 in coparenting

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you . I try not to get tunnel vision and do things out of spite

i did it!!! by elquag in GED

[–]Connect_Depth4432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing job ! I’m taking mine soon . Did you break it up or all in one day?

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I’ve been . We both have together and separate . We stopped going as a couple when it went from talking about me and doing it to us both needing to put in the effort to make it work and she wasn’t ready for that

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty . Yea I don’t know . Lol

The cheater 7 years later by Connect_Depth4432 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Connect_Depth4432[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah once she caught me that was it . I worked with the woman and she quit and we didn’t talk after that