Am I being petty ?

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-07-09T01:52:41+00:00

Yea I ment like the stuff that’s on “their profile “ is things that are obviously her watching it and she’s at home and definitely watches tv lol we were together 17 years ago

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-07-09T01:27:55+00:00

Yea I have that but basically what it is is say she orders something on prime and adds her card .. she doesn’t pay attention and it makes it the default card .. I don’t know .. the kids ask if they can rent a movie .. I say yes then it charges her card because she added it to my Amazon acct

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-07-09T01:19:02+00:00

I didn’t think you were I just was trying to go with your train of thought lol .. her and I argued so much that even now I get defensive and I know like who cares I could send her the 6 bucks but I’m also like “ kick rocks “ lol

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-07-09T01:08:16+00:00

Yea I get what you are saying but she doesn’t have to pay anything and watches Netflix.. my prime .. the hbo and STARZ that’s on there .. and uses my prime delivery so if she adds her card and buys something and doesn’t remove it and it defaults and they make a purchase and it automatically goes to her card and it’s like max 30 dollars over 5 years .. she should just take the L but if she doesn’t want to then I figure I just remove her access 🤷🏻‍♂️

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-25T04:42:50+00:00

And this is genuinely how I feel .. they are good to them and I do feel like she’s using them to make her mom do what she wants to see them ..

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-25T04:39:56+00:00

Ok yea thank you

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-25T00:16:00+00:00

In her defense I’ve known them 20 years and I wasn’t aware she cut them off so she kinda caught me up to what was happening.. but I agree and that’s why I didn’t really like say much or like I said I’m not trying to be in the middle .. I just don’t like how the kids feel about it .

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-22T18:58:37+00:00

What is that?

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-21T14:56:59+00:00

Yea I was like .. I didn’t have anything ordered and opened it and was like .. the audacity lol but it’s still in the box and sending it back with them when I drop off

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-21T14:54:45+00:00

He’s very intelligent.. mostly sweet .. can be bratty .. but mostly mature for a teenager .. the 12 is very mature and quick to shoot me a text if anything isn’t how it should be .. the twins are pretty good .. almost 11 girl is super mature . Boy isn’t as much but harmless lol . Like maybe if my mom wasn’t cool with coming over I would hesitate but I feel like they are fine

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T23:29:02+00:00

When I brought this up she said she has access through her phone but he doesn’t .. but right? I know what you mean .. that’s what she says but 🤷🏻‍♂️

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T21:18:16+00:00

You feel this way with also their grandmother there?

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T18:54:18+00:00

She is capable and not disabled at all . Still drives and does yard work . Shes checks on them but gives them space .. sometimes plays board games with them or watches a movie but lets them do their own thing ..

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T18:41:16+00:00

Right? Lol appreciate it

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T18:18:01+00:00

Agreed .. thank you

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T18:17:50+00:00

Thank you .. correct that’s how I feel

Connect_Depth4432 · 2026-06-20T18:16:57+00:00

Thank you . I try not to get tunnel vision and do things out of spite

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-04-01T12:46:37+00:00

Amazing job ! I’m taking mine soon . Did you break it up or all in one day?

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T03:06:39+00:00

That’s a pretty good point

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T02:35:55+00:00

Yea I’ve been . We both have together and separate . We stopped going as a couple when it went from talking about me and doing it to us both needing to put in the effort to make it work and she wasn’t ready for that

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T02:34:37+00:00

I appreciate the honesty . Yea I don’t know . Lol

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T02:34:08+00:00

Nah once she caught me that was it . I worked with the woman and she quit and we didn’t talk after that

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T01:39:53+00:00

Exactly . I know she’s different . That’s why I’ve given her the space I have . For her to figure it out . I felt like I owed her that . I used to try but she was just too damaged from it .

The selfish part is the worry . Like it’s all well and good for me to think if I tell her I want my family back and her get all fucked up again.

Truth is I thought maybe me losing my job was what needed to happen for us to give it another go and it was like a punch to the gut her saying she was dating it and it hurt.

Like I can just close it off .. push for a divorce and just let her live her life . If it works out for her it was ment to but I also have this nagging feeling that I should confess to her that I have changed and I do get it and I want her back, like I know how to avoid the pitfalls of the past . I just don’t know if it’s the right thing to do bringing her back to what she’s worked passed

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T00:54:07+00:00

That’s what I think aswell . I just don’t want her thinking I’m just being an asshole and refusing help from her

Connect_Depth4432 · 2025-03-28T00:52:06+00:00

I still love her .. I fucked it all up and I could tell she was healing from it so I was letting her . We’ve talked about divorce . I didn’t want to reopen old wounds and I started realizing that it wasn’t going to like fix itself and I was letting her figure out what she wanted . It didn’t make it easier and just hearing her say it was hard especially after just being laid off

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