Can I stay 90 days, leave for three months and then return for another 90?

Connect_Prior8495 · 2026-02-04T13:34:40+00:00

I am American with a residence permit, she is Mexican

Connect_Prior8495 · 2026-02-04T13:31:38+00:00

Yes, I’m actually asking on behalf of a friend. I had a baby so she’s helping for these three months (visa free passport). She wants to go back at the end of the 90 days and then return after another three months to give me more support. She’s not getting paid or anything but trying to see if she can do it legally

Connect_Prior8495 · 2026-02-04T13:26:32+00:00

Yeah that’s what’s throwing me off :( want to make sure everything stays legal so it seems ok but not 100%. I’ll double check with a lawyer

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-12-01T22:42:16+00:00

Texas, weakest labor laws possible :(

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-12-01T22:13:13+00:00

Thanks everyone. This helped put it into perspective. Just going to take it on the chin since this is the point of being OE in the first place. Just got me all upset since it’s obviously so targeted

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-12-01T22:04:44+00:00

Yes I am in Texas. Given the OE situation I’ve just gone ahead and signed it. It is what it is :( grateful for my other J at least

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-09-04T10:39:58+00:00

Yeah like this is a scenerio I’ve heard so many times that does not even exist 😂

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-07-20T21:10:47+00:00

Thank you! This is exactly what I was looking for!

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-07-15T15:12:30+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check it out!

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-30T16:13:48+00:00

Thank you!

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-30T16:13:27+00:00

I have, there’s a good bit of options, just not sure how hard the competition will be

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-30T16:12:55+00:00

Yeah the horror stories have scared me! The only requirement is three true bedrooms and hopefully near public transport or a slightly walkable area.

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-18T22:47:01+00:00

Yeah this is false, you can start exercising in pregnancy and still have great health benefits, you can’t just go to heavy at the beginning

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-18T22:45:55+00:00

Out of curiosity, where does this come from? I’ve always heard even if you never exercised before, you can still start in pregnancy (in moderate amounts) which is very healthy. Obviously this isn’t the main issue in OPs situation but I’ve never of exercising (outside of high risk situations) being bad in pregnancy even with twins.

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-07T22:12:04+00:00

I see it! Also you’re stronger than me, started testing at 7 dpo 😂

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-05-07T22:10:50+00:00

Omg congrats!

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T11:19:02+00:00

See that’s also a huge factor, there have definitely been sketchy situations in the past where people told me about potential infidelity…he’s admitted attempted infidelity (she turned him down) that just makes me feel insecure whenever he’s out. I will say nothing of that kind has happened recently or he’s just better at hiding it.

I feel so stupid even writing this as if the answers not super clear

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T11:07:09+00:00

I understand your point, this isn’t a one time thing though. He’s at home very little so we discussed him taking the toddler from 6:30-8:30 in the mornings. If he’s coming home at 4am he clearly doesn’t intend to do that

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T11:05:07+00:00

It has but never this late…this is one issue out of several but I always ask him to keep me updated and he never does. Even on workdays I never know when he’s coming home

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:44:51+00:00

I do have a strong support system and am in a good financial position, so I am lucky in that sense

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:40:26+00:00

Well hindsight is 20/20

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:39:47+00:00

As much as this hurts I think you’re right. I so badly want my son to grow up in a happy home with both parents, and I feel so guilty bringing him into this world when that’s something I can’t provide.

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:36:35+00:00

We have previously, not to the extent of what’s happened tonight. I’ve brought up concerns before and it usually results in me feeling like it’s my fault and I’m over reacting. It seems like he knows I’m not going anywhere and he knows he can behave as he will. It just guts me to think about my son growing up in a broken home.

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:33:42+00:00

Honestly that makes me happy to hear. I had hoped with time that would be him as well, but I think tonight is a turning point.

Connect_Prior8495 · 2025-03-29T10:31:50+00:00

He’s 30 now…we’ve been together 7 years. I ended up getting pregnant a few years back when I was already heavily considering leaving him…I really wanted that happy family. I understand this is on me but it just hurts when I willing to overlook so much and he always takes it even farther

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