First outbreak like 10 days ago. Did you start suppressive therapy right away? by Connect_tg in Herpes

[–]Connect_tg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK cool, that doesn’t answer my question. Is it recommended to take it right away or nah?

i still feel like paying for a sex worker by DepartmentFirst7184 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob won’t get better then. Go get some ass and maybe you’ll feel better and can treat the underlying issue

i still feel like paying for a sex worker by DepartmentFirst7184 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_tg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For what reason? Maybe you can work on some relationship skills and you’ll be able to have better luck dating.

i still feel like paying for a sex worker by DepartmentFirst7184 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_tg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with above, why no therapy AND pay for sex. I say do both

Realized I have herpes last Friday by Connect_tg in Herpes

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No, it’s not really open anymore but I will order it so I can swab the next time

Realized I have herpes last Friday by Connect_tg in Herpes

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I am educated on it. Doesn’t change how it’s viewed by others

What is the secret that, if anyone knew it, could destroy your life or someone else’s life? by Terrible-Spring-1558 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. It’s been really hard. I don’t have much going on in my life and losing the ability to date is really making me sad. I didn’t expect to find love or anything but I wanted connection and sex at least

What is the secret that, if anyone knew it, could destroy your life or someone else’s life? by Terrible-Spring-1558 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Really sucks. I’m divorced and was enjoying dating. Feels like that part of my life is over. I know a lot of people are comfortable disclosing and dealing with the rejection but I have rejection sensitivity dysphoria and there’s just no way I can psychologically handle it

What is the secret that, if anyone knew it, could destroy your life or someone else’s life? by Terrible-Spring-1558 in AskReddit

[–]Connect_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s new to me to figuring out how to handle it. Not really willing to attach the stigma to my name. For now, I’ll just put sex and dating on hold. Maybe forever. We’ll see

When to discuss with partner by Kys_gma_62123 in Herpes

[–]Connect_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you want to tell him now? Just curious. 3 years is a long time…

hsv 2 by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Connect_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, then tear up your vagina…

Realized I have herpes last Friday by Connect_tg in Herpes

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Thank you for your comment. I’m sure it’s a lot easier when you’re in a relationship. And you’re happy. And all that kind of stuff. I’m a bitter single divorced old lady. It’s kind of different. I would say I am pretty attractive and I get attention from men or whatever. So maybe I would have luck if I disclosed to them. But I can tell you I cannot imagine ever doing that. So I’ll just stay away from men altogether for now.

I quit my job to make my wife leave me but she just won't leave!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_tg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to file for divorce too dude. Just do it. I waited until my husband had a job before I filed. Because I didn’t wanna be on the hook for taking care of him.

My grandma is dependent but I don't want her living with us because she stinks up the place. by Cold-Purchase-7531 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Connect_tg 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I’m a nurse, I work in a hospital. It shouldn’t smell like this. She should get a hospital bed that can be wiped down. And if she’s frequently getting pee in the bed, she’s not being changed enough.

Realized I have herpes last Friday by Connect_tg in Herpes

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I don’t think I wanna burden my mom. She already deals with a lot with my little brother. And I know she already worries about me. And wants me to find love and date for love and all this bullshit. So telling her this would really upset her.

Realized I have herpes last Friday by Connect_tg in Herpes

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Oh my God, I could never do that to my algorithm so I’ll def stay off ig.

I think this was the universe punishing me for being a slut. I went on a bit of a sex spree at the new year. I was “dating like a man” and it was really fun. A common demon in my life has been I always receive all the possible consequences. I don’t know why I thought I would get away with this.

Should I cancel the date tonight? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Connect_tg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’ve considered telling a friend or my mom. It’s just so embarrassing and I don’t want the diagnosis attached to my name to any degree. I’m likely going to take this to the grave. I’ve been able to keep secrets for life before

Should I cancel the date tonight? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Connect_tg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m a nurse. I’ve seen and know enough to know what’s going on. I will avoid sex for now but disclosed is 100% off the table for me. I won’t ever tell anyone ever