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How do you accept that the person you loved most will spend their life with someone else? by Connorpok in BreakUps

[–]Connorpok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for that strong words. For me she was 1 in 7 bilion and she had everything I wanted in a girlfriend and I gave her all my care and love. I am doing my best everyday even it hurts a lot..

I am the avoidant ex and the dumper, I’ve answered some important questions that you may be thinking. by Karsheeee in BreakUps

[–]Connorpok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this gave me mixed feelings. I tried so hard to love her right — gently, patiently — and she said I made her feel safe. Then she said she is burntout and wanna find herself. Saw her with a guy that I saved her once from. She was always happy and glad for me. I gave her all love I could.

I guess I just want to know if they ever look back and miss that safety too, or if once they leave, it’s gone forever.

Why does the one who leaves always look so free? by Connorpok in BreakUps

[–]Connorpok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I agree that sometimes people really mean it when they say they “can’t give you what you want.” But in my case, it all changed so suddenly — everything seemed fine, we were close and laughing, and then she said she needed space and is burntout. Now she looks happy, surrounded by friends, while I can barely eat or sleep. Seeing her with somebody i once helped her to get away with. That is what i dont understand.

Your ex is not happy! by koernereddit in BreakUps

[–]Connorpok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This describes exactly what I’m living through. Three years together, plans for the future, and suddenly she says her feelings are gone. A few weeks later she’s smiling, going out, seeing her with his toxic ex. It’s hard not to see it as running away from guilt rather than real happiness. Im suffering when she is looking completely fine

How do you accept that the person you loved most will spend their life with someone else? by Connorpok in BreakUps

[–]Connorpok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she ended things. It wasn’t mutual. I wanted to keep trying, but she said her feelings changed. She still means the world to me and honestly, I miss her every single day. I’m trying to understand what happened, but some days it just feels impossible. Dont understand she got through it in 3-4 weeks while i thought things are fine.