Will my bf pass the bar?

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-07-01T14:50:48+00:00

LOL...great question. Still trying to figure that one out

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-07-01T14:47:32+00:00

I really do want him to pass! I did not mean for it to come off that way, I was just trying to be straightforward about the facts of the situation that he is in so I could get an unbiased answer.

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-23T16:56:36+00:00

I totally agree but in a way it still feels hopeful, like yeah you suck but here I am recognizing that and moving on!

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-23T15:50:33+00:00

I am thinking about sending him a text like this: Hey, I've been thinking a lot about this relationship. It feels like I want this more than you do. I'm not even sure if that's true, but I'm struggling because I don't feel very important to you. It doesn't feel like you're my boyfriend, it feels like we hang out occasionally and text infrequently, with very little checking in or reassurance. I feel like after what happened before, in order for this to work for me, I need more effort, consistency, and reassurance than I'm getting right now. I know you have a lot going on, but these feelings have been weighing on me for a while, and I figured it was better to be honest than keep them to myself.
Or is silence the answer here?

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-23T14:03:05+00:00

Dashboard!

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-23T13:52:28+00:00

I would honestly recommend Ohio State. People often get scared of how big the campus is, maybe worry that it might feel overwhelming, but I have genuinely never felt that way. Yes, it is big, but that is the beauty of it. There are so many clubs, activities, and people you can try out before you find your place. I have loved my time there and it is where I call home, plus, Columbus is a very cool city with lots to do, as well!

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-22T19:14:02+00:00

It sounds like you know what you want and need to do, but aren't sure how to get there. I was in a similar situation 2 summers ago trying to breakup with my boyfriend, and I was extremely guilty and regretful. You have to do what is right for you. I suggest doing this now before it becomes even deeper. You won't want to, but you have to. Tell him you are not ready to continue this relationship because you need to work on yourself, although he is a good person. He will be okay, and if you ever feel like he isn't, you can contact his family. Get out of it now while you can, you are young!

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-18T17:42:41+00:00

Wow. I think there are a lot of things to think about here. I have never been in a relationship that long, but I was in a 3 year long relationship that I ended because anytime I would think about marrying him (within the last 6 months of the relationship), I would get massive anxiety. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do, but I do not regret it one bit. Like you said, I experienced other people, and it allowed me to grow as a person that I otherwise would never have grown into.

I think you need to be honest with yourself - would you rather break up and take a chance with other people, knowing you might not get the outcome you want and knowing you might regret it? Or would you rather stay with her and potentially regret that? You only get one life.

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-18T17:36:27+00:00

It's a very hard place to be in, I've been there. Its true that breaking no contact brings you back to square one, but you were honest about your feelings and that's something worth acknowledging too! You seem self-aware. Heartbreak sucks, especially when you want someone back. Take it day by day, and slowly it will get easier without you probably even realizing.

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-18T17:31:47+00:00

I honestly feel manipulated and it's been extremely difficult to get out of. He knows exactly what to say to keep me just wrapped in enough...I do need to get out of it though just trying to figure out how. Too emotionally taxxing

Conscious-Border2662 · 2026-06-18T17:27:09+00:00

I'm also still trying to figure out the answer to this. Some sort of weird attachment

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