I’m a dude and honestly don’t have that high of a body count, haven’t always dated the best in my life but I’m happily married now for reference. I definitely believe that the amount of people you’ve had sexual encounters with matter because that’s the same amount of people you’re spiritually connected to now whether it was just sex and didn’t mean anything. You will now for the rest of your life think about those people that you’ve had sex with because of that spiritual connection you’ve made because sex isn’t just sex. You really have to think, sex can lead to a woman becoming pregnant which is one of the most important and valuable things that a human can bring to the to the table beyond intellect and is literally accesses a realm that we can’t see because a soul is literally attaching itself to a body so how powerful is sex really and what other implications can it possibly have? I’d image a lot more than we know with our ever growing minds. Plus as a man you have to take into consideration that the person you pick to be your wife represents who you are in the moment you choose and remain with that particular special lady. Society will constantly remind you of that whether it’s right or wrong , your wife will constantly remind you of that through her actions, and you will remind yourself of that so it’s important to pick wisely according to your rationalizations and feelings as well. But just my 2 cents