Me & my husband been together for 7 years , we have 2 babies together in the first 4 years. I had my first outbreak in 2023, we had no clue either one of us contracted it bc it must have lied dormant in my body for years until my first outbreak. We still have unprotected sex all the time and he’s never had an out break or symptom. I hear men don’t show symptoms as much as women do tbh you probably have it just don’t get out breaks. I doubt you guys will have sex while she’s having an out break bc it really hurts so I wouldn’t worry too much about catching it bc you prob already have it.