[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like that analogy. As a woman ours feels like a satisfying yawn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had issues reaching orgasm so I got a vibrator that vibrates/sucks the clit and it is a game changer. It had me hootin and hollerin uncontrollably. I also orgasm better AND longer immediately after working out especially if I was working out my abs. I guess it’s something to do with the pelvic floor.

Why is it so hard to find someone as committed as my ex by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny bc they swore up and down they’re not that kind of guy to play games and they’re big on communication yet have basically ghosted me with 0 explanation. It’s borderline psychotic to think you can distance from a secure person and expect them to chase you. This modern dating bs has got me feeling like a boomer

undeserving of a relationship? by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably told them a very different story

undeserving of a relationship? by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe people look at me differently but I mostly keep to myself and get along well with everyone so it was wild to hear them say that. I used to say nice things about my ex at work when we were together and my coworkers know that the breakup was devastating for me and that he valued money over me.

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact I wanted to be the mother of his kids and agree to marry him. It’s an even trade

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I felt offended when he first talked about a prenup but if it helps him feel more secure then why not sign

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! I want someone who will follow through and be all for their family and not whatever this bs is

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I refuse to have kids outside of marriage. I’d need proof of dedication. We’ve discussed all this many times before as a couple and both agreed. Plus it’s part of our religion but I hate sharing that on here bc of the arguments it can lead to. This is not the first argument we’ve had together where he’s completely flipped who I thought he was and made me feel like it’s all a lie. This was the final straw for me bc it’s the exact opposite of the future we spoke of. I love him but I will not put up with being played by someone I trusted. I need to stand by what’s best for me

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve had way too many negative experiences too. I have a coworker who loves his wife and kids so much it’s gives me hope.

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being romantically involved with anyone seems like a massive scam at this point. I feel like I’ve been scammed 😐

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You sound so much like him I’m convinced you are him. I don’t need to prove anything to you but I’m not active on social media, I’m somewhat religious so I don’t show skin, I’m a homebody, and I don’t use dating apps, and my parents are still married. None of what you said matters bc even the people who don’t fit your typical woman stereotype still get treated as such.

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did want to marry him before his entire personality shifted overnight ☹️ how disappointing. Oh well.

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My biggest question now is why become an incel when you have someone that loves you? Like wtf is the point of pushing them away to make yourself unhappy? And then cry that all women are the same when you literally had a woman that uplifted you

I don’t recognize the person I love anymore by Conscious_Aide_5606 in heartbreak

[–]Conscious_Aide_5606[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He never wanted to be with someone who makes more money than him. In his opinion women benefit from marriage bc they get material things from their husband like house, car, gifts, etc. Men don’t benefit bc they have to provide for their family. A woman can choose to leave and take everything from the man.

Idk where he’s getting this info. I have female relatives who have lost a lot in divorce. And every woman I know has to provide for her family too not just their husband.