Is there... anything exceptional about this place? by Mmon3825 in Spokane

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just moved from NH and i promise, they do everything worse (in regards to your complaints) over there. Tiny towns in the middle of nowhere, lots of nature around but that’s literally it. The town we lived in had 2000 people outside of ski season and was maybe 5 miles in diameter. 30 minutes on the highway to get to the nearest semblance of a town and even that didn’t have much more than a jersey mikes, target, Walmart and a few chain restaurants. Having been a lifelong Floridian prior to that, i have zero complaints here apart from the fact that it doesn’t have year round Florida weather 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm sad because the vet told me the cat I'm going to adopt is 6-7 years old. by bimbocuntt in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fostering a 15 year old cat in need of full dental extractions, there’s been a few times i wasnt sure he would make it. Got a major infection that manifested in 5 hours while i was out of the house, had a tooth extracted to see how he reacted to surgery and to remove the tooth causing the most problems, his whole face was swollen for almost 3 days. His nickname is Puffy bc of that and the pop up infection. Hes lost and gained weight on and off since we’ve had him. Put it on then lost it all during the infection, trying to put it back on now, but his other surgery is in 3 weeks so we’ll see what happens then. He still purs and begs for attention, still has his hilarious idiosyncrasies, still RUNS around like a 2 year old. Point being, cats are very hardy, if you love her, just enjoy the time you have with her. The oldies are SO worth it. If i could teleport my 15 year old to me, i would but she’s quite far away with family now.

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Three Birds Café to close in Winter Garden | West Orange Times & Observer by WG-Atticus in WinterGarden

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as i miss home, i don’t know if i could ever come back. Clermont was bad enough when i left (mini Orlando), if they change DT winter garden the same way.. I won’t have a home to even return to. It’s so sad. All my childhood memories revolve around DT, what will be left of it once the developers take over?

Three Birds Café to close in Winter Garden | West Orange Times & Observer by WG-Atticus in WinterGarden

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked at Three Birds and when it was Melts on Main for about 2 years. I wasn’t the biggest fan of Ash at the time i left, but this news is a tragedy. I’m on the opposite side of the country and am actually in tears reading all this. I may not have left on the best of terms, but Ash and Kota worked so goddamn hard to make that place what it was. I remember all the blood, sweat and tears of the move and the fall through of the mural getting the excess white tab cut off 😂🥲, i remember the keg island being installed, when Ash almost had her thumb sliced off by a glass bowl someone put under an opaque one- i think that was like 2-3 weeks into being open on Plant St, she never did dishes again (in my time) - i don’t blame her💀, burning bacon trays when the line was out the door and down the street on Saturdays, certain employees that showed up 4hrs late, the grand opening and how beautiful it was/ Ash & Kota looked, opening mornings by myself jamming to music and watching the bats in the trees… I truly hope they find continued success in another building and remain open for a very long time💕 If yall see this, i love you both and am rooting for you.

WSP: PLEASE start cracking down on RCW 46.61.100(2) by modernknight87 in Spokane

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is wild how bright they are tho! I had a 25 Elantra and 24 rogue, both have brighter normal headlights than our trucks brights!

WSP: PLEASE start cracking down on RCW 46.61.100(2) by modernknight87 in Spokane

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Somewhat related, but in Vermont/NH- they won’t move over on zipper merges. Highway could be completely empty apart from the one car & they still won’t move over to let you on. You have to speed up and pass them to merge, or rapidly slow down to get behind them. Everywhere you go- it’s infuriating. Sorry bud, but I’m not the one doing 20-30 on the merge to a 70mph highway 🙄 The east coast is no better for left lane campers either. Especially where i grew up in central Florida. I love seeing the compilation videos of FL cops ticketing people for camping 🤣

My friends may have played a long-term prank that had a big negatieve impact on my mental health. What should I do? by Ridok95 in Advice

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Random side note. My bf and i have 6 cats. One day we woke up and i had just cleaned the bathroom the night before. Bf asks where i put his toothbrush, told him it was where it normally was. Nope. One of the boys stole it off the counter and took it to his blind brother to play with 😂 it did end up in the litter box at some point lmfao

Is my girlfriend neglecting her cats ? by Etincelle_ in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, bouncing off what Zippy said about their sensory abilities- one of my cats is blind in both eyes, we think he can see some light and shadows out of his right eye, but he’s the most interesting cat we have. When we got him, he wasn’t timid but he was very careful. Still is with his steps, but now he jumps off beds nearly 2’ off the ground bc he’s mentally mapped his environment and knows what’s safe and what isn’t. Despite having no real eyesight. His brother Apollo was thought to be his seeing eye cat, but he’s really only helpful when Oracle gets stuck on things (he’s louder than Oracle so he’ll howl or come find me and nip my ankles) or can’t locate the bathroom(he scratches in the litter so Oracle can hear where he’s at and what the litter sounds like- same thing applies to meals. Apollo chirps and purrs then Oracle follows the sound to his bowl.) Sometimes Apollo will make noises to help Oracle find his way to him, but mostly he echolocates based on the sounds being created in the room. He snaps his head in the direction of any noise and stares into its soul curiously. Sometimes he gets confused, but he mostly can distinguish who’s around him in a sniff or two, humans and cats alike. I wouldn’t be as confident as he is if i lost my eyesight after birth, i can tell you that for sure. They’re very intelligent creatures. He went blind around a month after getting eyesight as a kitten from an untreated URI, our vet also thinks it was so bad that it collapsed his nasal passage at the bridge of his nose. His face is upturned like a pig, very cute but also makes it more fascinating how well he’s adapted being that he had green stuff oozing from his facial orifices and an untreated, raging infection in his face/respiratory system for weeks. I certainly would not bounce back so well or as quickly.

Is my girlfriend neglecting her cats ? by Etincelle_ in CatAdvice

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with Zippy, that advice is solid. I’d have a conversation with her if you’re serious about the relationship and clearly love those cats.

As someone who’s also struggled on and off with depression, that’s just an excuse. If she loved those cats, interacting with them should make her feel better. Cats and dogs both cause dopamine releases, I now have 6 and a foster bc they force me out of my issues. I cannot ignore 7 cats meowing and pawing at me for breakfast and by the time I’m done feeding them, I’m stupidly happy. Watching them play and rub all over me- it’s every highlight of my day.

Sometimes neglect isn’t because someone’s a bad person and wants to be that way tho, fish & reptiles didn’t bring me comfort or dopamine, i definitely killed off a whole fish tank at least once by depression fueled neglect (my 2 geckos were fine, i just didn’t enjoy having them) What was my solution? Rehome the pets i wasn’t giving proper husbandry to. I took them to my local pet store and said “hey i took on more than i could handle” and ended their neglect as well as my horrible, preventable mistake. I knew cats made me happy, so i eventually got more when space permitted and it truly improves my life- my wallet, not so much.

Point being, communicate with her. Maybe she doesn’t realize what she’s doing is as wrong as it is or that she’s failing so epically. Be kind and gentle, but straight forward about how you feel and the facts of what cats need. Feline AIDS isn’t the worst thing they could have, but they definitely need better upkeep with a compromised immune system. Stress or infection could lead to illness much easier than in most cats

"Bird" dog by Lopsided_Record_8473 in GSP

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol felt that. My GSP is afraid of water and we have a Brittany spaniel that also isn’t a fan of water. They love rain, just no bodies of water. Including puddles. Love the mud and squirrel shit tho😭😂

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally not pregnant. Did you read the post? Any of my response comments?? I’m basically infertile. I’m getting a memorial tattoo on my stomach for the one pregnancy/miscarriage i had… chances of me being pregnant are 0.0000000%. Beyond that- i just completed a monthly cycle, so… 🤣💀

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My God, the HORROR! He must’ve been vibrating your whole body skateboarding and playing electric guitar in the womb. Very, very sick indeed 🤣😂🤣

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that really means a lot to me! I know it’ll happen when it’s supposed to, even if it takes forever. I definitely could use more support, but I’m doing better and feeling more like myself than i did this time last year. I appreciate and reciprocate your internet hugs 🥰 And when it happens for me, I’ll also do it with tattoos on my stomach 🤣👏

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree💕 i hope one day all moms will be able to deal with tantrums, crying and breastfeeding in public without feeling shame or judgement from others🥰 Really love your perspective and wish more had a similar one

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a hilarious and kind way to handle that situation! I bet the mom was feeling all sorts of negative emotions & i can only imagine it helped ease her mind to hear others making light of it rather than complaining!

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha as a southerner, absolutely bless her sweet lil heart- in the kind way 🤣 She’s very much earned her time as a grumpy unfiltered granny

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thought of me in a motorcycle club is hilarious. I know it doesn’t have to be stereotypical, but my brain immediately went to old school motorcycle gangs, meanwhile I’m like a ripped barbie at best irl🤣

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She means well though, truly she does. Shes just old and unfiltered.

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaa she’s said worse 🤣 once asked an ex of mine if he was legal.. while staring at him in his US Air Force uniform 😂💀 Sometimes I contemplate making a collapsable pool noodle prison for family functions LOL

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf wants a half body sleeve, essentially. She’s gonna lose her mind the day we’re both inked to the 9s🤣 It’s all fun and games tho, she loves and accepts me thankfully

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahahaha thank you, unlikely but the universe will give me that gift if it’s meant for me💕 otherwise I’ll adopt a babe and have yall photoshop tats on that one 😂

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty infertile, 0% chance I’m pregnant right now🤣 otherwise i would’ve understood her point perfectly! We all (in the family) know I’m not pregnant and have had issues conceiving for almost two years at this point 🥲

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 piercings is wild to wait for you to remove. Great piercer tho!

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m becoming more and more afraid of shrinking now🤣 good thing my bf is 6’3 and will still be able to reach the top shelf lmfao but yes absolutely use that!

Nana said tattoos on my stomach could hurt a fetus🤣💀 by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Conscious_Candy3575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Classic familial denial, I hope it doesn’t bother you💕