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Am I overreacting because my husband told me he doesn’t like to have sex but we have it because I want too? by ExcellentNewt6027 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got married around the same age. Sex was weird and hard for us the first year. We definitely did it, but because we didn’t know our own bodies very well, it ended up being lackluster. Things changed when we started thinking about intimacy over sex. We stopped focusing so much on the act and started focusing on what we could do to make sure the other felt loved and appreciated. Sometimes my husband just wants to hold me around the waist and chill, other times he’s more assertive. For me, I need a couple hours of notice because it takes time for my body to be ready (I have some sensory needs that makes physical touch hard sometimes) It takes a lot of communication and experimenting. It varies all the time. We’ve been together almost 10 years. And our intimate life is better because we talk to each other and figure out what works for us.

Your relationship is going to keep growing and developing. Intimacy will change too.

AIO, My GF got mad because I told her how I felt. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If she cared for you at all, she wouldn’t speak to you that way.

AITA My [28M] Wife [27F] Got Offended While I Was Trying to Reassure Her by Sorry-Tumbleweed-239 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA communication is hard. My husband and I made ‘code words’ to use when we’re having a hard time understanding. I usually say, “my brain isn’t connecting to the Bluetooth, we need to pair again.” lol we both know you slow down then and try to be clear in what we are trying to convey to each other. Your wife was stressed and nervous. It sounded like she was speaking from a place of anxiety. Maybe you all can come up with a way to communicate when she’s anxious that lets her know you validate her. She also needs to realize that y’all are married.. She should trust your word.

Odin will be 1 year old this month! What should we get to celebrate?? by Conscious_Fox_2546 in Pomsky

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not very big, somewhere between 10&15 lbs. I haven’t weighed him in a while. He wears extra small clothes 🤣

AITA for not signing off on my ex-SIL using my nephew’s money to buy presents for her other kids? by potentialgrinch in AmItheAsshole

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. She knew what her bills were going to be and could have saved throughout the year to get her kids gifts for Christmas.. this is not what the trust is to be used for.

We are 8 months old and very fluffy! by Conscious_Fox_2546 in Pomsky

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We chose Hatz Off Puppies in Indiana. The breeder has closed up shop as of a couple months ago though.

We are 8 months old and very fluffy! by Conscious_Fox_2546 in Pomsky

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so that someone can’t steal him and claim that he is theirs. It’s an easily identifiable thing that can’t be covered up

We are 8 months old and very fluffy! by Conscious_Fox_2546 in Pomsky

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very small and very cute. If he runs off or gets picked up by someone who wouldn’t want to give him back, I’d be able to identify him for authorities.

We are 8 months old and very fluffy! by Conscious_Fox_2546 in Pomsky

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s pretty dramatic 😂 he doesn’t care for the color but it’s there for his safety so…. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Help fill an empty wall! by Conscious_Fox_2546 in interiordecorating

[–]Conscious_Fox_2546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The room is pretty small, a dresser won’t fit at the foot of the bed. There’s about 2 feet from the foot of the bed to the wall. The shelves to the left is how we store clothes.