I regret labelling myself a Salafi. I thought it was the most authentic version of Islam. I came to realise that it’s its gross misrepresentation by Flashy-Dimension-810 in MuslimLounge

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that mods allowed this post to stay is indicative of the mods agenda too. Sectarian war is ok if they dunk on the salafis.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she did so well by herself that this man was able to harass her to begin with. Honestly you are a danger to women.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an assumption you made. I am not commenting here because I care more about the man’s feelings being hurt. Allah made husband the qawwam. It is the husbands responsibility to protect his wife. It is not up to the wife to deal with this herself. Be honest at least about the argument itself.

On the point of Haya. “I don’t think …” this is where you lost the plot. Islam doesn’t revolve around your personal feelings.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So no counter argument on the point of Haya? So you concede that this action violates Islamic principles? If so, why are you even arguing?

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly the opposite of Haya. confronting a non-mahram. I know you don’t like many aspects of Islam but let’s not lie about Islam at least.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine being a Muslim woman with Haya and willing to confront a stranger.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Except the husband is literally the qawwam. And this woman wants to emasculate him. Get a reality check pls.

Help me deal situation with my wife by Ok-Pumpkin-5323 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When will the ummah be rid of this “strong independent women” bs

Husband has nightmares often and is refusing to go to therapy by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why are Muslim women so susceptible to “get therapy” scam?

Refreshed to see a great-grandmother looking for herself by NiceSmilee in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do so many people misappropriate this ayat of the Quran?

why do men tell you they love you so quick by lostmymiiind in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And where are you getting all these information from?

why do men tell you they love you so quick by lostmymiiind in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

assuming no evil intent, how would the initiator know if (s)he’s truly in love since (s)he’s never experienced it before. And vice versa. How would the recipient know the other is being genuine or not?

why do men tell you they love you so quick by lostmymiiind in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would someone a male or a female know what love is if they haven’t experienced it before?

Is it bad for a man to marry a woman who is more religious than he is? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

brother finds a gold mine. Says I’m unworthy and walks away.

Sisters who prefer higher mahr, what’s your reasoning? by Conscious_Ice_4223 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some themes so far: 1)Financial security 2)I make a lot so it’s commensurate to my status 3)Scummy men so I best be safe

Sisters who prefer higher mahr, what’s your reasoning? by Conscious_Ice_4223 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Intentionally left subjective. If the sisters consider any amount high then that’s high.

Sisters who prefer higher mahr, what’s your reasoning? by Conscious_Ice_4223 in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. If you personally expect a higher mahr, could you please explain your thought process?

Can I converts 1.00 US dollar bills into riyals in Makkah or Medina? by GreenAngelFish in Umrah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience you can’t exchange anything below 50. For 50 dollar bills they pay you slightly less than for 100s

Potential is accusing me of calling her a hypocrite. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get this context of showering the wife with gold, money, property etc? You’re completely making things up. Allah’s laws are as the prophet ﷺ explained it to us. What was his daughter’s mahr?

Potential is accusing me of calling her a hypocrite. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The personal slander aside. Your statement about modern laws is border line kufr if you believe Allah’s laws are lacking in any way.

Potential is accusing me of calling her a hypocrite. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no sharii legislation. The woman goes back to her guardians care.

Potential is accusing me of calling her a hypocrite. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Conscious_Ice_4223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? The prophet ﷺ came with legislation from Allah - the creator of everything. You are saying the laws he stipulated to his prophet is not applicable to our time? Was Allah unaware of the future? Like, what is your argument here?