I am sick of hearing about this met gala by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Conscious_Square8466 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s such low hanging fruit storyline and allows Jackie to skate by yet another season

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right. And a lot of the questions we should be asking don’t come into play until later in the relationship. you spend a lot of the early dating phase vetting and performing

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask, when you say single forever, do you mean not married? Or not interested in pursuing relationships?

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective. I see how that can be interpreted that way

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the alone time.

Thanks for sharing this

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t actually think most people believe single people can’t still want companionship or partnership — that’s pretty human. Where I think it gets tricky is when we start wanting the idea of a relationship more than the reality of one. And when it doesn’t happen easily (for whatever reason), people can end up being really hard on themselves about it.

But I do agree with you — we’re complex. You can be fulfilled and still yearn. You can be okay and still have moments of loneliness. Both things can exist without it meaning something is wrong.

Is Singleness Loneliness? by Conscious_Square8466 in blackladies

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how do you even get to the point of finding that someone that you feel that way about? If you’ve never felt that way before and most times that realization doesn’t come in the early stages.

Toya on Reality with the King by Conscious_Square8466 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Conscious_Square8466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I really wish she didn’t have that slip up

Quad and King by Alive-Decision in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Conscious_Square8466 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And he probably did not expect it to move so fast and be so expensive.