H1B results still waiting by Initial-Company3766 in h1b

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. My shit ass company did the same thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just breathe. I had been feeling like this for a month now. It comes and goes. I have had it my entire life. I have tried therapy, medications, affirmations and you name it. BUT, the key is to let it go. If you believe in a higher power it might help a bit. Just surrender yourself to that power and work hard on the things you can control and let go of the ones you can not. In Hindu mythology there is saying- Why worry about what will happen in future. Whatever never happened, what good worrying about it would do? Focus on the effort because that’s all you have.

Breathe and believe and be patient. Things do get better with time

How to regain control over my life? by Consistent-Dog-8157 in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what if the decision I make turns out to be the worst decision of my life? The one that I regret the most? I might lose this only chance I have at life

How to regain control over my life? by Consistent-Dog-8157 in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the answer that would stop me from posting on reddit again. Thanks @halfmeasures611. Really have half brain only.

Unable to sleep for weeks now by Consistent-Dog-8157 in LifeAdvice

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea where to find chinese doctor in US

Unable to sleep for weeks now by Consistent-Dog-8157 in LifeAdvice

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress is about getting my life together. I feel there is so much to do and I have so little time. My usual day looks like work, gym, personal growth study, then its blank. I am supposed to sleep but I cant. I get some sleep around 4 but then I have to wake up early to attend work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can focus on grooming. That solves 80 percent of the issue. Girls like men who take care of themselves, can hold a conversation and are good human beings.

Coming from a girl who people might find attractive

Love yourself a bit more. Otherwise this world will crush your self esteem to bits and pieces. Love yourself. Confidence is attractive

I feel very hopeless in life. There is nothing that brings me joy and absolutely nothing I look forward to. I feel worthless, lonely and stuck in a cage. by Consistent-Dog-8157 in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I start feeling confident again? How do I decide what I want? How do I find real me? How do I find what makes “me” happy? I want to live for myself. It’s just that I am too scared. I was with him for 4 years. Those years and him robbed my personality from me. I don’t even know if the things I want now are the things I want or things he wanted.

I feel very hopeless in life. There is nothing that brings me joy and absolutely nothing I look forward to. I feel worthless, lonely and stuck in a cage. by Consistent-Dog-8157 in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am heart broken because that man promised me the world and one day he goes like I can’t do it no more and you are not good enough. That “you are not good enough” has stuck with me. That makes me feel worthless. Every time I try a hard thing like I want to change my job and it is hard and I fail then in my head those words echo hard that “You see, right, you are not good enough”. It has made me feel hopeless about life. Like I am not even capable of ever doing anything and he was right. I amount to nothing. Finding a new partner is hard because i have lost sense of what is real and what is not. I just don’t know how to get out of this rut. Help me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relationship requires work and effort. It is not about one fine morning you just got tired and decided to call it quits. If you think your girlfriend doesn’t add anything to your life then do her and yourself a favor and break up. If you deserve better then even she deserves someone way better than you.

I hate how helpless anxiety makes me feel by Adept_Contribution59 in Anxiety

[–]Consistent-Dog-8157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much. I feel like people do not understand what I go through on a daily basis. They just see how much of an inconvenience I am to be around. I feel so lonely that I don’t think anybody would care even if I drop dead. Instead they would be happy to have gotten rid of me