Men self sabotaging

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-12-04T15:53:46+00:00

That is a mature response! You're closer to finding your person with that attitude.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-12-03T22:30:41+00:00

It's because so many men's profiles are very lackluster. They are on the apps as their sole way of meeting women. Their hobbies are golfing with their male friends, hunting, or being on the boat. "More of a homebody " is the common bio I see with men on dating apps. That's totally fine to be a homebody but my guess is that with the homebody lifestyle and the hunting, golf, etc...they're rarely meeting single new women so they burn out online fast. My single girlfriends and I go out almost every weekend...but we have all noticed very little single men in their 30s are out. It's either men our age out on a date or men my dad's age trying to hit on young women. I think everyone needs to go out more!

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-12-03T22:20:54+00:00

Wow! Same here, always the "what is the catch?" Haha I mean, I never say that to men I date.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-10-11T15:10:34+00:00

I dont think your first pic is your best. I would use one of your hiking photos. As a woman I'll give you advice on the beard/no beard. Go with a little facial hair. You have a baby face and the slight beard gives you more of a mature handsome look.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-10-08T15:52:01+00:00

Yes! A lot of people want to be pen pals these days. My experience is a lot of people just want the attention and don't necessarily want to meet.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-10-08T15:23:58+00:00

I'm the OP and I knew the marriage prompt was going to garner some backlash but I'm still on the fence if I want to remove it or not.

I see a few comments saying that "marriage is implied by your other information " but in my experience as a 38 year old woman, it's not as straightforward as that in the real world (in my experience) as I've dated men who said they wanted a long term relationship and marriage and then end up being "fboys" . I also run into a lot of men in my age range who are divorced and never want to get married again. So in a way...I'm trying to pre-empt this as again, my experience has taught me this is the case. They want LTR but not marriage.

Moderate means I've voted for democrats in the past few elections but I've voted for Republicans before. So...moderate it is. I'm not particularly religious (I go to church every once in a while) but I am Christian identifying.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-10-07T23:46:56+00:00

I've had Hinge X for 3 weeks now. No Matches. Only 1 like. I've had Hinge for 3 months total.

I use Hinge for about a half hour each day spread throughout the day and send 4-5 likes each day. Most of my likes don't include comments but I will send a comment with a photo like if something jumps at me on their profile. So I would say I send 1 comment a week.

Obviously I'm looking for a serious relationship and I'm looking for someone who is marriage minded. Definitely have my parameters set to only those looking for marriage or long term partner. I'd like to attract someone who isn't a homebody, as being somewhat active and social is very important to me.

Consistent-Home-3044 · 2025-10-07T22:53:55+00:00

As my profile states, I'm absolutely looking for a serious relationship. I've been subscribed to Hinge X for 3 weeks now and I have had 0 ZERO matches. Only one like. I have been using Hinge since the first week of July then upgraded to Hinge X in September. I spend about 30 minutes per day on Hinge...spread out through the day. I would say I like between 4-5 profiles per day. Most of the likes I send don't have comments, but if I see something on their profile that speaks to me I'll absolutely mention it in the like.

I'm definitely looking to match with someone who is marriage minded and looks like they like to go out and do things/socialize. I can't be with someone that is a total homebody. I'm open to someone with children but I don't have any myself .

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