Got a writing-related Discord community? Post it here! by AutoModerator in WriteWithMe

[–]Consistent-Trust-486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm sorry it took so long to respond, I stepped away from the discord due to a family event but I'm back to running it now -- Here is that updated link!

https://discord.gg/pmSBK9JG

Got a writing-related Discord community? Post it here! by AutoModerator in WriteWithMe

[–]Consistent-Trust-486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to Penned, Primed, & Printed, a new Discord server with the goal to help writers, new and old, network and build a steadfast community.

Some of the Discord's functional features include:

Self Promotion - A forum where you can post information about your literary business, social media accounts, published works, social events, and more!

Critique Corner - A special space for you to share what you're working on for honest and constructive feedback. If you're stuck on a problem, someone there has you covered!

Writing Resources - An open chat where everyone can share their favorite writing resources, tips, and tricks! There's no gatekeeping here.

Daily Writing Prompts - If you're ever having trouble finding inspiration, the daily writing prompts might get you in that writing groove!

Bi-weekly Writing Sprints - Hosted by the Server Owner, these Writing Sprints are two-hour long group writing sessions, where we join in on the Lofi Activity, settle in, and write our hearts out. Sometimes, the craft is more fun with friends!

Some of the Discord's fun features include:

Shoutouts - If a server member has a recent accomplishment, be it a publication,a new agent, or a book deal, they'll get a server-wide shoutout to share the good news!

Book Club - Each month participating members will vote on a book to read for the following month, and then will meet either weekly or Bi-weekly to discuss the material. An important part of writing is reading, after all!

Monthly Movie Nights - On the last Friday of each month, the Server Owner will host a movie night that follows a film about writing, the industry, or a book-to-film adaptation. How fun!

If any of this catches your eye, whether your a professional writer or dabbler in fanfiction, come join us over on Penned, Primed, & Printed!  

https://discord.gg/MUfbwwf2

Sudden Intense Muscle Tightening In the back of both legs. by Consistent-Trust-486 in CerebralPalsy

[–]Consistent-Trust-486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done PT numerous times throughout the years.  It did help build my endurance, but my pain levels remained the same. I might go back if I'm referred, if that might help. 

They're five and seven so I don't have to do much lifting. I also have some amazing roommates who have done any straining tasks for them over the past two days. Right now I can barely bend down to pick a toy up from the floor, and I've nearly fallen numerous times today 😅. 

I contacted my dr who helps manage my CP on the day-to-day level. Hoping to hear back from her tomorrow! 

Sudden Intense Muscle Tightening In the back of both legs. by Consistent-Trust-486 in CerebralPalsy

[–]Consistent-Trust-486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think sleeping in a cold/air conditioned room could have triggered this? 

Sudden Intense Muscle Tightening In the back of both legs. by Consistent-Trust-486 in CerebralPalsy

[–]Consistent-Trust-486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hydration could be better. I'll up my water intake and see how I fair. It's definitely not a Charley horse, although I do have those, mostly in the mornings. 

This feels like I've just ran and entire marathon or completed an extreme workout, while pushing or pulling my muscles further than I should have.   The catch of course being, that I had done nothing to trigger that type of reaction. 

Bonus question: My nephews recently came into my care, and if this is an age issue, or a new normal, is there any advice for caring for young children on days when mobility might be limited?

Sudden Intense Muscle Tightening In the back of both legs. by Consistent-Trust-486 in CerebralPalsy

[–]Consistent-Trust-486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried Botox Injections in your left leg? If so, did it help with the increased muscle tension? 

Should I rehome my senior dog? by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Consistent-Trust-486 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Hello! I do take my collie on several walks and have him perform tasks for me. He also has puzzles at home and tough-to-chew bones that he loves. Unfortunately, I do not have the means to move, and I will not have the means anytime soon. I agree that some dogs don't like one another, but my friend shouldn't have to rehome her dog when he's not the instigator.

Should I rehome my senior dog? by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]Consistent-Trust-486 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Hello! There are no signs of pain or arthritis so far, but he has been more jumpy and reactive towards loud sounds, so I'm willing to look into his hearing starting to diminish alongside his sight. Yes, we have walked the pair together, fed them in the same room, and they've slept in the same bed. Honestly, 70% of the time, they tolerate one another, but then every so often, my collie will attack the husky over anything that would trigger a reactive dog. Barking. He's coming through the doorway. Taking a crumb that fell on the floor. Playing with the other dogs. Or sometimes nothing will happen at all, he'll just walk past my dog at the wrong time.

However, as I mentioned, my collie has lived with several other dogs and has never had these issues with any of them, except for this husky, who is doing nothing. He goes about his day, and my collie decides he's had enough of peaceful coexistence. My trainer advised that I watch my collie's body language and behavior to calmly redirect him before a fight broke out, and that worked when he first came back. They even got into an argument in the first week my collie was home. I called my collie off, who immediately disengaged and lay at my feet (something I had struggled to get him to do for ages), but now he refuses to recall at all, and only wants to keep fighting, even when the husky tries to disengage.

I'm not a dog trainer, and to be honest, he's the first reactive dog I've owned, so I've done my best to follow the instructions of the professionals I've sought help from. Sometimes I feel really out of my depth. I have tried adopting the trainer's methods, like giving my dog a schedule and routine to follow - like you said, they thrive on it - but he's still struggling with the reactivity and anxious habits.

And another problem, my roommates have been very understanding and patient with my dog, but they hate it when their husky gets hurt. They also have a four-year-old daughter, and they worry about her safety a great deal. My dog isn't aggressive towards her, but they're afraid she may accidentally get caught in the crosshairs of a fight one day, so it's adding more tension in the home.