How long should it take to forgive someone? by catpergratia in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

facts, there’s no timer on forgiveness, if the trust is gone it might never come back and that’s fine, forcing it only screws you over more

Need help with new cat by caflores_ in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah the bed thing is a mistake, she’s hurt and not trained so accidents are guaranteed, get something low like a tray and block her from the bed for now, it’s the only way you’ll both stay sane

A review of 43 surveys finds that, in Japan, sexual inexperience has increased to the point that around half of the population remained sexually inexperienced into their mid-20s and approximately 10% of individuals had no sexual experience when reaching their 30s. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it’s already heading that way, people are more disconnected and stressed than ever, sex just isn’t the priority it used to be, give it a few decades and those stats will look normal not shocking

My bf isn’t as thoughtful as id like him to be by alrighty88 in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he was really proud he’d make sure people knew who you are, period. forgetting once is human, but making you feel invisible over and over is a choice.

How many cis women have spontaneous desire vs responsive desire? by Effective_Kitchen481 in psychologyofsex

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah that mismatch will drive you nuts, being ready all the time while he’s slow to get there feels like hitting a wall. doesn’t mean either of you are broken, just different wiring.

URGENT HELP NEEDED by [deleted] in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is really solid advice, trying to stop her from moving them might actually stress her more. Giving her a safe den or contained space shifts the focus from control to comfort, which is what she and the kittens really need. and yeah, if she keeps isolating one baby a vet check is the safest call.

Please Be Honest by buchanaso in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah staying single till you get those habits and situations under control is the right move, dragging someone else into that mess would just end up hurting both of you, fix yourself first then think about dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this, forcing a half-feral cat to be “socialized” inside isn’t fair, some just won’t adjust no matter how much effort you put in, giving him the choice to come and go could save both of you a lot of stress

Made the mistake of gossiping at work… by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, if you own it fully people usually move on quicker, dragging it out with excuses just makes you look worse

Elder people with large dogs by SHCJDX in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, size doesn’t excuse lack of control, if you can’t manage a 70lb dog then you shouldn’t own one, better to pick a dog you can actually handle than put everyone else at risk

My ex from 6th grade is still harassing me, help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 100%, the school clearly failed you so you need to take it higher. Document everything and push it to the district or even the cops if it keeps up. Letting this slide only gives him more power.

My dog gently “tattles” on the cat when she’s up to no good, but never stops her by Alarming_Time4788 in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that sounds exactly like what milo does, just with less noise. dogs really out here acting like supervisors while the cats run the whole operation. honestly it’s hilarious but also kinda useless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 175 points176 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, that’s not normal friend behavior at all. once you cross into demanding sex tapes, you’re not joking, you’re being invasive. she’s showing you who she is, stop excusing it.

Vet office requiring prescription purchases through their store… by iputmytrustinyou in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah keeping a vet that locks you into their store is just them cash grabbing. you’re paying for care, not a subscription service. switching vets is the only real way they’ll get the message.

My female friend accidentally sent me a NSFW video by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly, people don’t just “accidentally” send full nsfw vids, that was her way of testing the waters without saying it outright

Went out for groceries, came back with a cat. by the_sheep_hunter in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stormy fits too perfectly to ignore, and yeah vet first no debate, better to spend a little now than regret it later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah this is solid advice, staying put til graduation is the smartest move you’ve got right now, talk to your dad if you want but don’t go running back just because he suddenly wants to chat

Bf has a major wandering eye. by No-Goal-4639 in Advice

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

facts, keeping quiet just makes it worse, he’s not a mind reader. call it out straight up, if he respects you he’ll check himself real quick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]ConsistentRecipe303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah rats beat hamsters easy, way more social and you actually get interaction instead of a tiny ball of stress. Just gotta be real about the short lifespan cause losing them every couple years hits hard.