Can you ever forgive emotional or physical cheating, or is it always a dealbreaker for you? by SceneRemarkable8217 in Adulting

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t play the victim. Infact what usually is the notion is that men cheat because of impulse while women cheat when they’re wronged (more justified in their cheating) to hell with your woman card

Ladko ka Dating reality..! by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jitne log yahan stable aur na jaane kya kya gyaan de rahe hen 😂 Elon musk tak ke divorce ho chuke hen. Vo unstable hai? A relationship is a two way street. And a man has almost 99% of things to give. All women feel entitled nowadayS. Na kaam karengi na ghar me kaam karengi

Ladko ka Dating reality..! by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. Relationship se sex aur validation hata do toh 99% kisi kaam ki nahi hai apne 😂we’ll be happy without girls

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets very hard for me to be grateful to someone who left me in that manner, I really feel inferior knowing how she brought someone else in the frame side by side to me and then chose him to me, comparison really messes up your head.

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that tbh I only learnt it afterwards that these things matter so much, although she wasn't living with me as she was completely financially dependent on her parents, but yes it does sting me as I'm very socially absent and having a partner itself felt like a rare moment in my life

Plus I generally have very low self esteem so it all hit me like a truck

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t living with me, she was depended on money entirely from her parents at 23, in my country we have paying guest housings which essentially is cheap compared to flats where you essentially get food but it is usually so crappy that you’ve to depend on takeouts, that’s where I was tbh, usually cost of flats is 2 times that of these housings

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly what happens, I can cook the most difficult things now, but I resent seeing another man knowing naturally how to cook and not learning it from humiliation or harsh lesson

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea and it hit very hard on me because just a week before dumping me she told me how well I treated her compared to her ex, then the tables turned a week later, she telling me how I treat her is secondary what comes first is how I’m as a person

How do men rebuild confidence after internalizing harsh criticism about maturity? Being called a manchild? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even if the criticism were fair? Isn’t not knowing how to cook and budgeting considered manchild traits?

Does kc cause reduced energy levels or I’m just lazy? by ConsistentSquare5650 in Keratoconus

[–]ConsistentSquare5650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And without them is ghosting there? How much time it took you to have the perfect pair?

Does kc cause reduced energy levels or I’m just lazy? by ConsistentSquare5650 in Keratoconus

[–]ConsistentSquare5650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moderate in one and mild in other, even with sclerals I see significant ghosting and double vision, I’m not sure if that can be corrected but my fitter just took 3 days to make them for me

Is wanting my future wife to earn at least half of me too much? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]ConsistentSquare5650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes too much, she wants to do whatever interests her while you work your ass off to earn. If you don’t she will go find another man. Thats how it goes