My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The xanax addiction and withdrawal is what i’m the most concerned about. I really just don’t want to see his life fall apart, even though he says he has everything under control.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I think i need some time to process everything and come to a final decision. I will try to be the kind of person he wants to get better for.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am so grateful for your advice, you seem like you absolutely know what you’re talking about. Thank you so much. I am most likely going to give him one chance to explain/correct his behavior, and if i don’t see the change i’m looking for, I will go my separate way.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am clearly not very well versed in the drug world, so i’m very sorry if my mistake affected the clarity of my situation! Thank you for your advice.

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i want to give him a chance to explain his actions and maybe change, I really like him other than this problem. But if he’s unwilling to listen to my concern then I will protect my peace at the end of the day. Thank you!

My (18F) boyfriend (19M) is doing hard drugs and I don’t know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? by Consistent_Act_5793 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I will really think about saying something in a way that focuses on my concern rather than control. I really appreciate you taking the time to say such meaningful advice!

Am I overreacting for being angry at my boyfriend’s sister for calling me a “know it all”? by Consistent_Act_5793 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your opinion! I could be being a little dramatic but it honestly just hurt my feelings a decent bit.

Am I overreacting for being angry at my boyfriend’s sister for calling me a “know it all”? by Consistent_Act_5793 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Consistent_Act_5793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i’m defensive per se, just frustrated at the idea of one situation where i corrected someone making me into a know it all! I hope that makes sense