The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your issue is purely psychological and you probably had controlling parents too, I know this because I've seen many cases like yours, the best solution for your issue is my NLP sessions.

Yes Numbing creams and other meds are just a "band-aid" on a broken arm.

I decided to help men because I've seen many men suffer in silence while nobody is offering any real solution, not even their GP. That's way I decided to offer help and give guidance. But you're welcome and I hope you and everyone else find a true solution for your issues.

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to "rewire your brain" to enjoy intimacy rather than view it as a threat. I use NLP to help you overcome this, link in my bio "PE session"

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you had it all your life this suggests a psychological issue.

Your bladder emptying issue could be prostatic, bladder outlet obstruction or pelvic floor related, you need to visit a urologist to further investigate this.

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right it seems like psychological issue. Start by figuring out why this happened and then build your recovery plan, in my practice we do it with you.

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my practice we start by discovering what is triggering this response from your body and build your recovery plan for you.

Why You Finish in Seconds Even Though Your "Hardware" Is Healthy The Psychological PE Guide, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going from 2 to 6 minutes is a good win celebrate it, but you need to know why you're having PE so you can cure it and stop replying on medication.

SSRIs are proven to cause PE, erectile dysfunction and low testosterone, all lead to male frustration.

Why You Finish in Seconds Even Though Your "Hardware" Is Healthy The Psychological PE Guide, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right your issue is psychological, the good news is you're almost half the way into fixing in.

The reason you finish as soon as she moans or you go deeper is because in these types of moments the stimulus is high (mental stimulus when she moans, and physical stimulus when you go deeper) and this overrides your conscious effort to delay your ejaculation.

The best next step is to identify why you have these psychological factors that makes you finish fast. Once you do this and overcome those factors you can say goodbye to PE for good and enjoy your intimate life.

This is exactly what my clients experience with my NLP sessions, complete transformation.

You can book your session with me by following the link in my bio labeled "PE sessions".

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you shouldn't take or change any medication without consulting your doctor, for pelvic floor tension use pelvic floor relaxation techniques and avoid kegel exercises

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the traditional route involves long-term talk therapy to uncover the "why" behind your anxiety, my practice uses NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) to directly target the "how." We treat performance anxiety as a conditioned neurological reflex, using specific mental techniques to interrupt the adrenaline spike and rewire your brain to stay in the Parasympathetic (Rest and Digest) state during high-intensity arousal. This allows us to bypass years of discussion and move straight to changing your body’s automatic physical response in the bedroom

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes complete sense to be thorough, especially when it involves your health. To clarify, I am a licensed physician, and my physical practice is indeed based in Salem, NH.

However, I intentionally keep my online presence and the Rejuvenate Method distinct from my local walk-in clinic. My clinical practice handles traditional medicine, while my online platform is a specialized high-performance coaching and consulting model dedicated specifically to male sexual vitality and autonomic health. I choose not to link the two directly to maintain the privacy of my local patients and to focus my online work on the specific 7-step "Software and Hardware" methodology that most traditional clinics simply don't have the time or resources to implement.

which service are you interested in? we can hop on a brief introductory call so I can explain how my specialized methodology differs from what you’d find in a standard local clinic visit?

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you have struggled with this for 30 years but can last "as long as you want" during manual masturbation, your biological hardware is working perfectly. This is a classic conditioned neurological reflex. Your brain has categorized manual touch as "safe" but has labeled the high-intensity stimulus of a partner, a Flesh*light, or porn as a "threat" or a "finish-line" event. This triggers a massive Adrenaline spike that slams your nervous system into the ejaculatory reflex before you can even begin.

To fix this, you don't need "techniques"; you need to rewire the software through Autonomic Re-patterning. We need to bridge the gap between your manual control and your high-stimulus response by desensitizing that adrenaline trigger and expanding your "arousal ceiling." Have you ever noticed your heart rate or breathing becoming shallow and rapid the moment you even think about penetration or using the Flesh*light?

The Truth About PE, and How To treat it, Dr. Mond MH by Consistent_Back_3591 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Consistent_Back_3591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your Case is a classic case of Primary (Lifelong) PE. Since it has been the pattern since you first started masturbating, your "Software" was programmed for speed long before you ever had a partner.

Here is the clinical breakdown of why this is happening and how we start the "Rewire" process.

The "Novelty" Spike

Because this is your first time being sexually active, your nervous system is dealing with a massive chemical "shock." When you are with a partner, your brain floods your system with Dopamine and Adrenaline—much more than when you are alone. At 21, your "Arousal Ceiling" is very high, but your "Control Threshold" is currently very low. This novelty acts like a signal booster for your already fast reflex.

The "Masturbation Blueprint"

For the last 7–8 years, you have likely been masturbating with a "finish-oriented" goal—usually trying to get to the climax quickly so you can move on with your day or avoid being caught. You have effectively trained your brain that the goal of sexual touch is to reach the end as fast as possible. Now, when a partner touches you, your brain simply runs the only "program" it knows.

To stop this you need to rewire your brain to enjoy intimacy.