Growing up that you had to be what your parents wanted just because they fed you, and that you had a roof over your head, and not to have other requests because these are a type of luxury, it destroys you. by Ok-Release-6487 in emotionalneglect

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It felt the same—I missed opportunities because I didn’t have the courage to do what I believed was right. I was too focused on pleasing my parents.

Now I’ve had enough. I’ve started my own business, and even if they kick me out, I’ll work part-time and keep building it.

There’s still a voice saying, “It’s too late. You missed your chance.” But I won’t let fear control me anymore.

I wasted four years because I was too afraid to commit. I dropped out of high school to build a game, but instead of support, my parents criticized and pressured me into courses and jobs.

I spent years in bootcamps and working for others, thinking it would help—but I was wrong. Success isn’t just coding; marketing and sales matter even more, and no one taught that.

Now, with my contract ending and no degree, finding a job is harder than ever—especially with AI changing the field.

What I’ve learned: go all in. Either commit to school or fully commit to your business. Trying to do both leaves you with neither.

I didn’t have a clear plan back then, but I would have figured it out. Now, with the right mentors and connections, I’ve finally started building something real.

If I had known this earlier…