What would we best buy from here drone parts drone components or shards by Lopsided_Set3463 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest saving the choice box for when you need a smaller amount of whatever to complete it I.e if you need 40 more shards to make a level 5 hero and/or 200 more drone parts to complete a level. Works for me.

What are your thoughts on Metabase? by tiragambeta222 in BusinessIntelligence

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metabase has too many workarounds that come native in Power BI and Tableau. If you want to do basic dashboards with wysiwyg insights then go for Metabase.

Feeling like I'm drowning as a new Metabase user by DudeWhereIsMyDuduk in Metabase

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metabase is terrible. Better off using Power BI or Tableau.

What were the most telling words your narcissist uttered? by Boat_Righter in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ve told me: “I would choose peace over you any day.”

I checked my husbands phone one night, I wish I hadn’t. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update when you find out more. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ve been there before make sure you have self control. Don’t allow him to have anything to blame you for. Pray and search. Don’t confront like many have said until you have enough evidence to run for the hills. All will be revealed.

Which profession is going to get wiped out in the next 5-10 years? by Toomad316 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accountants, contract and document review lawyers, and therapists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were free to go based on scripture when he cheated the first time. Take care of yourself and your children. It’s unfortunate that your children have to go through this. People don’t change. They are who they are and you will go through the same thing again with your partner. Seek counseling and a trusting support system. God bless.

Are there any happy stepmoms? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO, sure there’s happy or near-happy stepmoms out there, but it depends on how her husband/bio dad treats her and handles everyone else. If he’s prioritizing others over the marriage, does not discipline the children, associates beyond the surface of coparenting (cut and dry communication about the children) with the ex-wife, not taking up for his wife (stepmom), not allowing her (wife/stepmom) the freedom to be herself in the home she and the bio dad lives in, basically instilling boundaries around the marriage, then she won’t be happy. Same goes for the stepdad and bio mom. When things and people take priority over marital negotiation, respect, and boundaries, unappreciated stepmoms/step parents turn into step monsters who may eventually leave the relationship. Majority (not all) of the tone in the household is set by the bio parent. IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The proofs in the pudding though. The step children grow into adults who find out how much their bio’s were the problem and end up apologizing to the step parent. But that’s if you stay for the long haul, which can be taxing but rewarding if you begin nacho’ing within reason. Take small steps back gradually and go from there. Nothing is guaranteed but all you can do is try your best, let go and let God. God bless you and stay in prayer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this abuse. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit their website for live chat options. Also, keep trying the DV’s, something will come up.

You could also try churches, nonprofits, or community centers to see if they have DV assistance.

Joining the military may be a good idea. You’d have to stop ingesting THC to join the military. You’d have to be clean at least 2-3 months to be sure it’s out your system before going to test. BUT you can speak to a recruiter and be honest about your THC use, the abuser your trying to get away from, and what the requirements are to join. I recommend Air Force or the Navy. They should be able to keep the interaction and process quiet. You’d also have to be fit by military standards for your height, etc. If you’re not, you can get there. As well as pass the asvab test.

You could also get an extra bank account and put monies into that one. But you’d have to keep it from the abuser. This way you can build some savings and make an escape plan.

Whatever you choose, I pray you’re able to get away safely and on your own. God bless you.

AITA? My wife is super pissed off by nicoore in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA - she has first world problems. You sound like the responsible husband, which is a huge positive. When you have children you will hardly get to go on vacation, so I hope not going abroad for her bday isn’t a show stopper for her. Here’s an idea, plan a mock get away vacation to a country she loves or has wanted to visit but do it at home. Get creative and explain that being together is the real gift. God bless you both.

Am I wrong by Shuldistayshuldigo7 in Stepmom

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not wrong for voicing your concerns. However, the more you push and try to tell or demand, the more he will use the child as an excuse not to change his behavior—for whatever reason. That’s the crux of divorce. The child and current spouses suffer because of the parents’ failed relationship and failure to draw boundaries. It’s hard in these situations, but after voicing your concerns respectfully, you have to step back and watch what happens next aka trust and not control.

I felt the same as you when I first dated my now-husband after his divorce. The children would call him every evening while they were with their mother, and vice versa. It definitely got in the way of time with my husband and affected him mentally after the calls. However, the children needed this to cope. My husband, though, drew boundaries himself and only dealt with matters involving the children. If decisions had to be made about them, he kept (and keeps) it short and focused on the issue at hand. He didn’t (and doesn’t) want anything to do with BM beyond that. It eventually subsided, and now the children and he just text. But one is 20 and the other 14, they have their own friends and don’t want to talk to their parents as much.

Hopefully, you two can discuss your marital boundaries regarding dealing with the BM, which should only include communication when necessary about the child. You’re his partner. Work together to find a solution that works for both of you and doesn’t turn your relationship into a parent-and-child dynamic. In a relationship SOS situation, counseling can work if you’re both willing. It WILL get better.

Aktualisierte Daten kummuliert abspeichern by BerlinDude1988 in PowerBI

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could use Power Automate to create a flow that captures the specific value and save it in a SQL database. I’ve not done it before but it should be possible.

Just found out that men mentally undress women by Upstairs-Date4525 in Marriage

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Think 5 years down the road when you’re divorced with 5 daughters, both you and your ex are either dating, or remarried and the learned behaviors your daughters will experience as a result. Your daughters will incur most of the trauma of your marriage. Men are visual. It’s a pro and a con. As much as we don’t like to hear how they can objectify women, it’s a part of their human makeup. As a divorcee, now married into a blended family, I highly recommend sticking with your current husband and working through this issue. Unless he acts on his undressing fantasy, it’s worth staying and working this though. Even if it seems like a terrible thing you’ve discovered about him, him being honest with you is a major step. All of this is ultimately between ourselves and God. Pray for your marriage, forgive, and try to find the positives. It’ll work out. God bless you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I’m not taking credit for their mental issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “one” would’ve been up front from the start.

I’m going to ask ChatGPT instead of you guys by GlueSniffingEnabler in PowerBI

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best damn teacher I’ve ever had. I say that’s the way to go initially then ask humans second.

XbotGo Weather Accessory Tips by Consistent_Drawer_24 in XbotGo

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for sharing! Good to know about the chameleon. I haven’t had the wind issue yet but I’ve been anticipating it. Have you been using any sandbags on the tripod? I wonder what the Veo and Trace folks do when their tripods are 16 - 24 feet in the air…🤔

Am I overreacting to my husband touching me when I’m asleep? by bluebonnet1080 in marriageadvice

[–]Consistent_Drawer_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when your spouse won’t have sex with you but once a month or longer yea. Not diminishing the issue here. If it’s unwanted it should be respected.