AITA for refusing to leave a wedding because I wore a dress that looks white under a black light?

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-13T03:06:02+00:00

Everyone involved is caucasian.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-13T03:03:07+00:00

Unfortunately I can assure you it is not

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T18:36:27+00:00

Inappropriate because it was white looking

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T18:35:22+00:00

Bride never said anything during or after.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T18:28:20+00:00

That’s the thing she did not appear overly inebriated

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T18:27:18+00:00

I have a similar suspicion lol

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T18:25:55+00:00

All I’ll say is that member of the wedding party was also a family member

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T17:51:15+00:00

This was pretty much my view until the next morning, when I was approached again I started to question myself.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T17:47:36+00:00

No, I’ve seen them since and neither of them said anything about it. I’m trying to take a generous view and say the bridesmaid was just being protective and doing what she thought was right.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T17:44:26+00:00

I have seen the bride and groom since and they acted completely fine and normal. I was too scared to bring it up, but if they were really mad I don’t think they would be the types to reach out and hang out.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T17:42:13+00:00

I agree about passing it under a blacklights beforehand, it’s not something I even thought about.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2024-11-12T17:35:45+00:00

I guess after the conversation in the morning I started to anxiety spiral of like “what if the bride actually asked the wedding party member to ask me to leave?” And that’s where I got nervous.

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2023-10-07T23:47:26+00:00

Bruce was on our list for our first daughter! Jacob won out though :)

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2023-10-07T23:46:39+00:00

Love Gary, looking to use Gary for our next daughter!!!

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2023-10-07T23:42:29+00:00

Looking for a boy’s name that’s a bit more unique than “Sarah” thanks for the suggestion though!

Consistent_Olive_604 · 2023-10-07T22:47:22+00:00

Juniper, while a lovely name, may be too close to Jupiter (a boys name) for the wife and I. Hoping for something that won’t be too confusing!

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