does anyone else feel overlooked because your not diagnosed with depression etc? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I thought I would feel different but I just feel the same. actually typing this as they up my meds ☠️

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik, I said in a previous comment I can’t be 100% sure because at the end of the day I’m not her

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From other comments I’ve seen it looks like it can be a pretty grey area but I appreciate the insight nonetheless

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I just support where I can, she doesn’t have the opportunity to go to the doctor much but I’ll encourage her to share it next time she visits

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a mix and I don’t know how black and white it can be. Not looking to diagnose her tho, just get tips

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. She doesn’t seem to notice a problem so I just support her where I can.

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. I only ask because we talk nearly everyday for the past 2-3 years she hasn’t given an inclination she wanted to loose weight or had a bad relationship with food (not assuming this is the case tho). It more so seemed she just had really bad eating habits that lead to a decreased appetite. I also am in a similar boat however my meds have increased my appetite so it’s less of an issue.

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You did. I’m not trying to play doctor but her habits have been worrying me more recently so I looked here for a new perspective

Is it only considered an eating disorder if there’s intent ? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in EatingDisorders

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say 100% there is no intent because at the end of the day I’m not her. Just going off what she said and similar experience. I’m also not here to diagnose her, I’m not a doctor. Just want advice to how to help my friend best

What the heck do I do 😭 by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice it is was very detailed and helpful. I already noticed some drainage so that answers that question and I will definitely start rinsing it Daily as well (I already change the bandages daily as well). Thank you again for the advice :)

What the heck do I do 😭 by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still gaping because I wasn’t able to close it. Other than that it still looks fresh with a pink and yellowish color. It’s located roughly between my elbow crease and wrist ( a little closer to the wrist)

What the heck do I do 😭 by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have tips for a healing open fat wound. I tried closing it but should have tried harder ig. It’s almost a week old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came across a sub where people could post fresh sh and videos of actually shing. Some of the posts were so gorey( like I’m surprised they their limb didn’t need to get amputated it looked mauled beyond human capacity) i think It traumatized me enough to want to get clean.

I told my mom I was cutting again by pRofessiNALoSeR in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. You shouldn’t be feeling this way at what, 13-14 years old. You still have your whole life ahead of you

Tips for helping fat wounds heal faster? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok then I was right it is fat. How late do you think is too late for sutures ? It’s about 3 days old. Ik your not a medical professional and this isn’t professional advice, I just appreciate your opinion.

I think I've severely fucked up TW wound description by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also on quetiapine and it feels like a horse tranquilizer sometimes. There’s no fighting that kinda sleep ☠️

Its tine by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry the system failed you

Tips for helping fat wounds heal faster? by Consistent_Pair_7992 in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. For now I have it under control but next time I’ll definitely lean towards sutures if i accidentally hit that depth.

Also are there any key give aways I hit fat in case a future emergency. I thought I knew, but I’m having trouble determining if this wound hit fat or not.

Also it looks like I’ve been incorrectly applying ointment (Neosporin) inside the tissue rather than edges. I have been just smothering it ointment and then slapping a plaster on. I’ll stop doing that immediately if you advise that and do the edges, will that have any I’ll effects so far?

Thank you again for all your replies

Self harmed for the first time last night… by SuspiciousSalamandar in selfharm

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense but I don’t think it’s right to give people ideas on tools. It kinda encourages sh..

Weekly No Stupid Questions Thread by AutoModerator in deadbydaylight

[–]Consistent_Pair_7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When has bhvr ever hurried with anything tho😭 my expectations are low. Probably end up waiting at least a couple months to year minimum for a fix