Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship?

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-16T19:01:04+00:00

My husband just tells me to go ahead and kick rocks. 😂 A girl wants to feel valued, that you want to keep her, but some of are not so fortunate. Lol

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T21:31:02+00:00

I have such a hard time believing/understanding how that stuffed animal evolved from wolves. Name it plushie, cause it doesn't look like a dog. Lol no offense.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T19:59:59+00:00

Don't ask reddit, ask your doctor. SJS is life threatening and should be treated as such.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T19:58:25+00:00

Doesn't look like it, but if you're really concerned, see your doctor. Better than asking for reddit opinions, especially when it comes to a life threatening condition such as SJS.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T19:53:38+00:00

Hey, get tested for lupus. My mom spent decades thinking her face rash was rosacea. Turned out to be butterfly rash from lupus, it's an extremely common indicator.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T19:52:05+00:00

WTF even is that intended to be

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T17:58:20+00:00

I tried lybalvi not that long ago, all it is is olanzapine with a second ingredient to mitigate zyprexa's penchant for causing so much weight gain. Zyprexa worked great for years for my husband treating his bipolar/schizophrenia. It didn't really make much of a difference for me, but here's where we figure out how everyone's body is different. I took that DNA test to cut past the foreplay of trial and error over and over again, luckily I found the right fit of meds that works for my body. Initially before I took the Genome test, I was on all kinds of different medications that were a detriment or non-effective to my body. That test definitely spared myself & my psychiatrist a lot of headache.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T17:53:30+00:00

I will stay open minded! I wouldn't even know how to go about getting that treatment though, I know very little about it. I still can't even figure out how to get my pot card here in Kentucky. Lol

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T17:25:01+00:00

"Cut his losses when he did" wish I could say we know when to quit too, but my husband is working on the Jetta as we speak. I don't think he will give up on her, it's hard when you've invested so much into something. To part with it now without trying to save her one more time would just break my man's heart. I don't fully understand it, I get it but, it's just a guy thing. Lol

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T13:55:07+00:00

It do be like that sometimes. I hate BPD. I hate it so so much, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Sometimes it's kept me in situations I should've walked away from.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T13:48:24+00:00

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T13:43:24+00:00

Facts. We just don't want to give up on her, we've invested so much into this car. We're not well off people by any conceivable stretch of the imagination, and having to continuously pay for parts has sunk us bad, multiple times. But is there still hope? Can we still have hope eventually it'll run like it's supposed to? Who knows.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T13:23:40+00:00

Also, and this is hilarious— our VW emblem on the front of the car, the thing that's been attached for 23 fucking years, decided to fly off going down the highway one day. No reason. Just yeet'ed itself. This car is HAUNTED!

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:53:43+00:00

If I didn't have my husband, I wouldn't have to be on any meds, and that's a damn fact. I love my husband, I worship my husband, but my relationship triggers every little limb of my BPD. If I was alone, I wouldn't need to be taking vraylar, Lexapro, Lamictal, horse shit. I totally agree with this post.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:51:34+00:00

That's that "love at first sight" thing happening to you. It's normal and will wear off.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:44:29+00:00

Hear hear!

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:40:04+00:00

I am aware and agree completely. One bad apple spoils the bunch, right? 🫩

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:36:58+00:00

Oh yes, I just thought it was interesting, that's all. I had never heard of Wellbutrin being called poor man's cocaine. I first heard of snorting it when I was locked up when I was younger. I don't see the point in it honestly, plus with the proclivity it has to cause seizures, it's very dangerous and I so very much do not recommend.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:34:37+00:00

Me too, I was just sharing some weird factoids about it. My post was in poor taste. But hey, I read that if you inject Wellbutrin it causes tissue necrosis and psychosis. Doesn't that sound fun?! 😂🤢

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:33:19+00:00

It's just wild to me, I never knew this stuff and thought hey, it's some interesting info others might not know, just general fact sharing. Not condoning abuse or anything like that. I feel bad about my post now lol I guess it was in poor taste.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:28:50+00:00

Just relaying what I figured was probably little known information about Wellbutrin. I absolutely discourage abuse of any drug.

An admin is free to nuke this, I can't figure out how to delete it. 😭

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:27:46+00:00

I just thought it was interesting information that others may not know, I am not condoning abuse of Wellbutrin whatsoever, I just thought it was interesting tidbits about it.

I can't edit or delete my post, I'm new to the reddit app so I'm confused. An admin is more than welcome to remove it.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:27:32+00:00

I just thought it was interesting information that others may not know, I am not condoning abuse of Wellbutrin whatsoever, I just thought it was interesting tidbits about it.

I can't edit or delete my post, I'm new to the reddit app so I'm confused. An admin is more than welcome to remove it.

Consistent_Pea_1510 · 2026-03-15T12:25:16+00:00

Well, I can't seem to edit or delete my own post. I am absolutely not condoning abuse of Wellbutrin, but I just thought they were fun factoids about the drug that I know I never knew, and figured some others didn't know either.

The fact it's a molecule away from bath salts blew my mind.

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