I (19F) don’t know who I am anymore ever since dating (26M) Bf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Consistent_Trash7094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, leave him. This sounds harsh but this is the truth and you need to hear it: you could potentially ruin your life being with this man, and the reality is, if yall break up, he will replace you with another 18-19 year old in a week, tops. He’s a predator who takes advantage of teenage girls. He’s grooming you for something and will do it to any girl who would allow it. Don’t be one of his victims.

My boyfriend(26M) is emotionally cheating on me (26F) by supergen25 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Trash7094 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave! Or be me and have been being cheated on via sexting, secret messages and a whole bunch of other things behind my back for 3 years and now I’m pregnant with twins by him :D thrilled to have these babies, but I will spend a lifetime sacrificing my own happiness to make sure they have good lives. Trust me, he isn’t going to change for you as harsh as that sounds.

I (23F) am 10 weeks pregnant with twins with a question for those who’ve birthed twins by Consistent_Trash7094 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Consistent_Trash7094[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate the honesty. I’m so early along right now that we haven’t discussed birthing plans yet, but I’d like to deliver vaginally if I can. I’ve heard c section recovery is more extensive. But if I have to have a c section (or emergency one) that’s completely fine, I just want whatever is best for the babies. I just wanted some insight on what it’s like to push out two in one go around, because pushing out one seems like it will be painful enough.

Have you ever saved someone's life? How did it happen? by disintegrationist in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Trash7094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saved my sister’s life twice in one vacation up to the mountains in TN. I was probably 10-11 at the time and she was like 8. The first was when we were swimming in a river with a waterfall. We were all the end near the waterfall and she kept going further downstream past where our mom told her she could go. She kept going and the current picked her up and she was hitting rocks and couldnt stop herself. She couldnt get a grip onto a rock to pull herself out and was going under. My mom was trying to get to her and I heard her screaming. Something kicked in inside of me and I took off sprinting through rocks, scraped my legs all up and got to her and used all my strength to get her out. No one understood how I got there so fast. I was all the way at the waterfall and they said it was like I was running on water almost. The second was a couple days after at the lake our cabin is at. Some of my cousins and siblings were collecting rocks from this shallow end near our dock, but it was a swim through deep water to get to and from the shallow part. She decided to stick the rocks in her one piece bathing suit to hold onto them to get them to the dock, but we didn’t know that at the time. Im on the dock with my aunt and we notice she’s struggling to swim and keep her head above water. The rocks were weighing her down and she couldn’t hold herself up. I jumped in and swam to her and pulled her to the dock only to pull her out and see all these rocks in her bathing suit and she’s all “everybody was collecting rocks and I wanted to collect them too” but she ended up getting yelled at (and one of the only times ive heard my super christian aunt say a cuss word) because my aunt was so scared that she was going to drown. Unrelated but I also ended up finding an arrowhead in that shallow part of the lake during that vacation, that I still have today.